- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
Ok, maybe “‘estranged”‘ is a bit harsh. Maybe I should say: “man that apparently fathered my Fiance, who we have essentially no relationship with”. Ok, that was a bit harsh too. How about this: “nice enough guy, who we don’t know very well because we have very little contact with him”. Ok, that’s better! I should add…he does call now and again…
So, we’re trying to minimize our quest list, you know, trim the fat! We’re about 30 people over our, fairly cushy, “limit” (that limit is set by our budget, not by our reception venue capactiy). Ok, Ok, well my parents, being the gracious hosts, said that we should ask Future Father-In-Law if there is a friend from work or anything that he would like invited. (The wedding will be awkward for him, he has no family, and treated Future Mother-In-Law very poorly, resulting in her family all hating him). So I do feel a bit for him, he will not know many people, and those who he does know, already hate him. That sucks. Sooo, I nicely asked him if he’d like to invite a friend, and he got back to me with….SIXTEEN people! Ohhhh man.
What to do, What to do? We were already trying to scale down! Gahhh…..