Post # 1
So, My fiance and I have been talking to our new preacher alot, weve become baptized and we are about to start counseling and were taking membership classes and in the midst of all the wedding plans our pastor told us that his wife loooooves doing wedding stuff and he suggested that i call her if I need help with anything at all.
I was very grateful that he offered and wouldnt mind asking her for assistance, especially since he said he would text her and let her know I may be contacting her. Sure he jumped the gun a little but now I would like to find a project of some sort that I can ask her to help me with.
Can you help me come up with something that I could use her for?
Also note that he is a new pastor from out of state, he started at the beginning of the year and he is suuuper cool but his wife wont be moving up here til about a month before our wedding!!!!
Post # 3
You can just ask her for opinions on small things, like types of flowers, possible arrangements, etc.
Post # 4
If you’re getting married in the church, I’d suggest asking her to help “design”. That’s what we’re doing for anyone that volunteers to help, because it’s not something that I want to stress about on the day of…you know trying to find people to work and make it look nice.
Post # 5
good idea toffee, thanks. I already have the flower types and arrangements so i dont want anyone messing with that.
Post # 6
I’ve recently become more active in my studies and I personally would like a woman in my church to mentor me on what The Bible says about wives in a marriage and women in the world. Maybe that’s just me, but since she’s a married woman I’m sure she’d feel honored if you asked her to be your mentor on the connection of women & God.
You could ask her about readings that she would recommend for the ceremony. Opinions on flowers, placement of something or what sort of pew decor.