No newer images
more by infoscibride
No older images
Can I blame it on the Bubblegum Sweeney?
more in Beehive
what's the meaning of "Its so pretty?"
Bridesmaid Dress Help
more in Boards
hair and makeup trials in so cal

Out of towners & RSVPs

posted 4 years ago in Beehive
  •  
    1.
    Member Icon
    Member
    4 posts
    Wannabee
    infoscibride    April 2008   Philadelphia

    Hi Bees! Hoping you can help me with a question I have concerning our out-of-town guests.    

    We reserved a block of rooms for guests at Hotel A, which is also where we will be staying and where our day-after brunch is. However, when we sent the Save-the-Dates, I felt it was only fair to include a couple other hotel options in the area---should ours get booked or in case better rates become available elsewhere (Hotel A's rates are still very good, though).    

    My question now is, what's the best way to find out which guests opted to go with another hotel? So I know where to drop off out-of-town bags? At Hotel A, they'll be giving a code when they make the reservation. But I haven't requested blocks iat the other hotels I listed, so there's no way for me to track who's staying there.    

    I suppose the obvious answer is to include an extra reply card in the invitations asking where people are staying. I'm not a huge fan of dropping another $100-200 on the extra card, but I will if that's the best way. Would this look tacky? How have other people handled this? Any thoughts on wording?  Any help is much appreciated. Thanks!!

     
    2.
    Member Icon
    Member
    123 posts
    Blushing bee
    psu01    6/23/07   Atlanta, GA

    I'd say save the money- making the OOT bags is already a nice gesture on your part and wanting to bring them to guests not staying at the hotel you booked is an even nicer gesture. About 2 weeks before my wedding I called around to another hotels to see if relatives were staying there & dropped off bags for them. Don't make yourself crazy over this though, do what you can!

     
    3.
    Bee Icon
    Bee
    977 posts
    Busy bee
    lovebird    July 2008   New York and Cancun

    I included something on my rsvps.  Here's how it read:

    __ Accepts

    __ Regrets

    __ Yes, I have made arrangements to stay at Dreams Cancun

    __ No, I will be staying at ___________________

     
    4.
    Member Icon
    Member
    169 posts
    Blushing bee
    christigpa    10/5/07   PA

    Make your OOT bags for how many ppl that have RSVP'ed from OOT - couple extra for in-towners you know are staying at the hotel (bridal party, etc.). About 2 wks before the big day, call Hotel A and ask for an "updated pick up list" that clearly lays out who made reservations under your room block.

    Look at your list of non-Hotel A OOTers and either 1) call the other hotels and ask if the Smiths made resi's there or 2) contact the Smiths yourself and ask.

    Attachments

    1. Out of towners & RSVPs :  wedding out of town rsvp hotels Img 53cb_2.JPG (3.4 KB, 166 downloads) 3 years old
     
    5.
    Member Icon
    Member
    4 posts
    Wannabee
    infoscibride    April 2008   Philadelphia

    Thank you for your helpful responses! All these ideas are good ones... I'm so scrambled lately that most of these things never would've occured to me!

     I'd love to get everything on one RSVP... although I am a bit concerned that all that info may not fit since I have to ask for menu selections too. I'll see what our stationer lets me get away with. Thanks again!

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    Gemstone 21
    Rivendeler 16
    Rojocameo 16
    Beckster329 15
    kat2014 13
    fivemonthsnotice 13
    hisgoosiegirl 12
    couawilou 12
    beargoose 12
    aussiebee 11

    Beehive

    User Posts Today
    fivemonthsnotice 7
    stardustintheeyes 5
    beargoose 5
    CaliHoya 5
    BetterSherm 5
    ellisrobertson 5
    Mrs. Meowerson 4
    hisgoosiegirl 4
    DaneLady 4
    Otulyssa 4
    More