- 8 years ago
Any suggestions about the sand vase???
I thought my mom and FI mom would go down and each pour a different color into vase…instead of lighting the candles…represnting our families…then my FI and I would each indvidually pour the sand symbolizing us individually…then pour both together to symbolize our unity for one another…
I have no idea and my grandfather is marrying us, so he says whatever I want….