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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    I am having trouble deciding between 2 dresses. We are having a destination elopement followed by a reception back home. I want a wedding dress, but something simple, not too structured and suitable for the location. I am in my mid 30's , in good shape 5'3 (5'7 in heels), size 0. 

    I feel too old to be so indecisive about my wedding dress!Over 30-Picking a dress :  wedding Alix Kelly Wedding Dresses Kate

     

     

     

     

     
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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    Over 30-Picking a dress :  wedding 007 Primary

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I like the first one with the dramatic back. That is SO elegant (and i'm a sucker for dramatic backless dresses!) and yet great for a destination wedding. I'm not feeling the second one...I know that model is skinny but she looks swamped in that material and it adds extra weight where no woman wants it...=]

     
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    goodart    June 5, 2010   Tn

    I like the first one best.

     
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    rachelss    August 22, 2010   Fort Collins, CO

    The first one is really elegant. The second it pretty, but kind of trendy. It would help to see you in the dresses. As I approach 30 my weight has shifted to certain places that would make the first one less flattering. :(

     
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    bestforlast    January 11, 2011  

    Hi Cakegal! I'm in a similar situation as you (destination elopment, wanting a simple dress). Where did you find these?

    I also vote for the first dress but mainly b/c the second just isn't my taste. But I think both are nice.

    Haha, Rachelss - I am right there with ya! I'd in good shape but I'd need some major spanx to go with dress 1. But since cakegal is a size 0, I'm betting that won't be a problem. :)

     
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    msicequeen    July 31, 2010   Toronto

    I love the first one! It's very pretty and elegant!

     
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    I love the first one too!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    I love the first one...it's simple and elegant. The second one has too much going on for my taste.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    I love the first one.

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    LOVE the first one.

     
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    ladyox    May 16, 2010  

    Cakegal, I love both but I'm in the minority in that I would go for the second one.  For a woman your size (I'm about the same) I think the second one would be lovely and it looks really comfy!  All I can think when I see that extra fabric is no spanx needed and you can eat an extra piece of cake!  

    But again, I'm sure you'll be gorgeous in either.   

     
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    sjones724    07/03/10   Frederick MD

    I love both but personally i would pick #2

     
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    SanDiegoAli    September 18, 2010   San Diego

    I really like the first one!

     
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    peanutlovespumpkin    9-18-10   Los Angeles

    I am in the minority and will say dress 2.  For me personally, I am not a fan of the nightgown/lingerie look of wedding dresses; while dress 2 is still simple, it also has a unique element to it and it seems like you have the figure to pull it off.

     
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    Sunshine23    July 17, 2010   Canada

    The first one is amazing!

     
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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    Thanks everyone. i am so undecided-i really love both!

     

    Best for last, the 1st dress is Alix and Kelly and the second is Vera Wang. Alix and Kelly has other styles good for destination weddings.

    I would also recommend Nicole Miller and Jenny Yoo. Many people like J Crew as well, but I ordered 3 of their wedding dresses and didn't care for them.

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    Yay for +30 brides. I felt the same way about being indecisive I went back & forth between 2 dresses for a LONG time before I made my decision.

    Personally, I like the 1st dress better. Mostly because I wore one similar in navy as a bridesmaid, it is simply gorgeous and I actually HAVE worn it again to another formal function. I love it. Can't wait to see which one you go with!

     
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    starbright333    June 26, 2010  

    Bah I'm on my second dress and I'm 31.  The dress is the best part of the wedding!  For us girls anyway :).  I love the second dress.  Very romantic.

     
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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    I seriously may end up picking out of a hat! I have less than 2 weeks to decide, and I just can't pick! I've shown 5 people in my life- 2 picked dress 1, 2 picked dress 2, and the other person couldn't choose.

     
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    jordynrose    October 16, 2010   Las Vegas, NV/Chandler, AZ

    I really love the first dress!  I love the dramatic back and I love that it is very similar to something my FSIL wore at her wedding about a year ago.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I love the first dress :) it is stunning!

     
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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    I chose #1! I feel very good about it. I will go get measured and order it Monday.

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    YAY! I'm glad you're happy with your decision. It's a great feeling! ;)

     
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    littlecat    October 1, 2011  

    I just LOVE the first one- so classy!!!

     
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    MeMe2010    August 21, 2010  

    I also love the first one - congrats on finding your dress!

     
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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    Here is a picture of me in the sample-It is one size too big and wasn't clipped, but I still love it!Over 30-Picking a dress :  wedding Dress1Over 30-Picking a dress :  wedding Dress2

     
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    OnBecomingMrsHall    October 9, 2010   Live in DC, but getting married in Philadelphia

    I love it! And do I dare say that this is something that you can dye and use a formal dress later on in life.

     

     
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    OnBecomingMrsHall    October 9, 2010   Live in DC, but getting married in Philadelphia

    I love it! And do I dare say that this is something that you can dye and use a formal dress later on in life.

     

     
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    ShellyAsh    June 25, 2011  

    GOOD CHOICE!  I like the first one best.

     
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    Birdie Love    May 7, 2011   CA

    Yay for the first dress! It's beautiful!

     

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