- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
I’m a newbie to weddingbee’s.
We got engaged just this past October and since I was adamant on having a 2011 wedding, we are getting married in August (YAY). Let’s just say, the whole wedding planning started off terribly. My vision for our wedding was having a backyard affair at my parent’s beautiful property. Let’s just say that dream got crushed and the fiance and I had to go with our back up plan. We are both really laid back, and I definitely didn’t want to be a ‘bridezilla’! I’ve also been in like 4 weddings, and am in the industry so I knew exactly what I wanted. Our theme is rustic, and purple, since dark purple has been my aboslute favorite colour since birth. I think I was born with a favorite colour, and I think having a favorite colour is a big deal. My whole family, extended family and close friends know that purple is ‘my thing’!
Anyways, now that I’m rambling, let’s get to the point..I’m starting to over think everything. I already have my dress, have the invites narrowed down, reception and ceremony are booked, photographer’s booked, officiant is booked etc,etc. I have basically planned the whole wedding in like 2 months. I LOVE my dress, I got the essence of austraila D1032 dress. It’s totally me, fun, girly and party style. We are having a cocktail reception/late ceremony. The ONLY issue, is it’s not rustic, or vintage, or lacey. It’s MODERN and chic. Not at all what I wanted, but I love it, and everyone loves me in it and I tried on a lot. Now, I’m feeling anxious about the wedding, and I am even having nightmares about the wedding – like random things happening during the day. Is this NORMAL?! I mean it’s January, and I have a few months to go. My girlfriends know I am over thinking everything because that’s what I do but seriously? How do you ever know if anything is right? Do you just go with the day? Anyone else feeling anxious or second guessing their choices they have made?