Favorite Food Ideas?
more by Minutiae
Helping An Almost-Brother
DYI STD Magnets?
more in DIY
Centerpiece tips or suggestions?
House of Blues Foundation Room
more in Boards
Any Mystic Seaport Brides?

Overdoing the DIY...*gulp*

posted 2 years ago in DIY
  •  
    1.
    Member
    2,416 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Minutiae    May 2011  

    I'm not engaged yet and my SO and I haven't had a full-blown wedding discussion (we've been stuck at "when I can finally sell this house and put a ring on your finger..." and "I wish this short sale would go through so I could start saving more money" for about six months), but I'm pre-planning for fear that I won't be able to pull everything together during a short engagement. A bad thing? I think not.

    Especially when I plan on DIYing the invitations, programs, food, cake, decorations, playlists....oh. And the reception site.

    My parents have a pretty big backyard. It would be great for the intimate (*cost effective*) spring wedding I'm envisioning, except for the part where it's a weedy overgrown mess. Case in point:

    Overdoing the DIY...*gulp* :  wedding diy Photo Video 647516841 Medium

     

    Yeah.

    So that's why I have been relandscaping the backyard since March! It's my giant, crazy, I'm-determined-to-have-a-wedding-in-spite-of-financial-insecurity project!

    It's looking a lot better than that now, but there are still days when I'm cutting down mulberries and wrestling with python-esque poison ivy vines and I think to myself..."why the heck am I bothering to do this?"

    Then I remember. Oh yeah. I don't have the monies. And my parent's house is literally a five minute walk from the church.

    Has anyone else felt waaaaay over their head with wedding projects? What's the biggest challenge you took on to make your wedding day happen?

     
    2.
    Member
    1,935 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Charm bracelet    July 24, 2010   Placentia, CA

    Maybe you could some friends to help and then it won't feel so overwhelming.  It is a beautiful backyard, so just imagine how much more beautiful it will be when your finished! You can do it!

     
    3.
    Hostess
    801 posts
    Busy bee
    Firefighter_Prazs_Girl    02/3/2010 and 05/03/2010   Angleton Texas

    I agree that would be an amazing place! Hang in there! It will be beautiful and pay off in the end! But that is a lot to DIY! Good Luck! The Hive is a great place for support and ideas!

     
    4.
    Member
    551 posts
    Busy bee
    floridabeachbride    05-28-11   Melbourne, FL

    lol. Um, my DIY list keeps reproducing! It's like I finish a project and it mates and three more come from that one project! AGGHHH

    But, the good news: I have a almost two years to finish everything.

    I already have my STD made and sitting in the box until I can send them. I also ordered all my wedding invite supplies so I can start working on it. I have my cardbox made and almost finish. But, I decided to DIY my own flowers and bm comestic bags..and the programs..and than the aisle markers, runner, and the altar...But, I don't feel like I'm drowning yet. Give me a year ;) I might be asking for a life saver since I'll be about five miles out in the diy ocean!

    I think the biggest challenge is going to make the beach look presentable and level for the wedding. It might take awhile to pack down sand and level it out esp since most of our beach have not been fixed from the country and there is a lot of erosion happening. I really think I'm getting in over my head with that one but I can't hire someone because they won't let you use your own decorations and ideas because of "insurance" reasons for DOC who do beach weddings.

     

    I Think you will be able to make that yard amazing! There so much you can do :)

     
    5.
    Member
    660 posts
    Busy bee
    Stacy Marie    July 24, 2010  

    That sounds like it's going to be gorgeous!

    I agree with the ladies above, have a party and invite friends over to help, make it fun!

     
    6.
    14,581 posts
    Honey
    Beekeeper
    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    That place looks gorgeous! Invite everyone over to help, then make them some dinner and wine!

    Worst case scenario, scrounge up a few hundred bucks and pay a landscaper or gardener!

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.

    Tags:





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    hisgoosiegirl 35
    MissBoPeep 34
    Mrs.KMM 26
    ndreighton 25
    Gemstone 24
    Beckster329 23
    beargoose 22
    BetterSherm 20
    Rivendeler 20
    KCKnd2 17

    DIY

    User Posts Today
    aussiebee 3
    Crigger5 3
    smyley 1
    couawilou 1
    Leonard2B 1
    Eireann 1
    troublesmom 1
    More