(Closed) Overwhelmed.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way!  Is there any way you could perhaps tell your Fiance exactly what you wrote here?  This wedding may not be a 50-50 between you, but you definitely shouldn’t be doing 100% (which is what it sounds like). 

Good luck!

Post # 4
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Deep breaths hun (and a glass of wine to relax).  I know how overwhelming it feels (we’re 3 weeks out!) but everything WILL get done.  As for your Fiance – mine is the same way. You CAN’T worry about the things he needs to do.  Give him a list of what he needs to do and by when and let him own it (if he doesn’t do it it’s on him).  You’ll lose your mind otherwise.  Mine waited until the day before the tux measurements were due to tell all the guys they needed them done by the next day!  Miraculously it got done. 

Post # 5
293 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My fiance is the same way! He forgets everything and I have to literally put his phone in his hands to get him to call or text the groomsmen about something. He’s like why are we getting all this done right now? Um so we can relax at the wedding and not be screwing around because we were lazy. All I can say, is deep breaths. That’s what I have to do 

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