- Andys B
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: April 2011
I am absolutely overwhelmed. I have been engaged since October, and my wedding is 3 months away. I have VERY little done, and I’m having a terrible time making decisions.
At first, I didn’t know if anyone was going to help us pay for the wedding, and my FI lost his job almost as soon as we got engaged. 🙁 He just started back to work TODAY. Needless to say, we have not had the funds to buy things for our wedding.
Other than my wedding dress and my rings, nothing has been purchased. I have booked the venue, officiant, and photographer, and the bridesmaids have their dresses. And that’s all.
I don’t know where to go from here. I had so many DIY ideas, as I knew we were going to have a tiny budget, but I don’t even have the money to buy the supplies to make anything. Recently, my stepmother has offered to help us buy things, but it’s like I can’t make a single decision to even let her know what she needs to buy. I feel stupid. Why can’t I just pick the flowers or the decorations for the reception or even the unity candle for crying out loud?!
How do I clear my head and decide what I really want? I’m running out of time, and all I want to do is run away crying in the other direction! I’m more than ready to be married, but I feel inadequate when it comes to planning our wedding!
Any advice/help is much appreciated!!