(Closed) Overwhelmed and feeling forgotten.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My fist thought is to cut your guest list. Not only will it cut costs, but it will lessen your workload, too. (les favors, food, games to entertain etc.)

You really need to ake a list of everything you need. EVERYTHING. And start ordering/booking people. Cake, video/photo/, officiant, DJ, flowers, favors, food, dresses. In reality, it might not take you as long as you think, but you really should get crackin soon.

As for bridal party drama, you already asked these people to be in your wedding. If they said yes, they understand they need to purchase a dress, and go to the wedding. If you are uneasy about their situations, just call each one of them and talk about it. As for them planning showers etc., that is not their job, it is something nice someone does for you. If they can’t swing it, another family member can throw you a shower.

If your MIL wants her daughter to be in the party, suggest she stand on your FI’s side. No harm in that, a she is obviously closer to him than to you.

You need to get a dress. ASAP. Even if you go to a salon and buy a sample, you still need alterations, etc.

 

Good luck!

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