(Closed) Pakistani tribute in American wedding

posted 5 years ago in Intercultural
Post # 3
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13 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@thestylistquo:  I’m white, my fiance is Bangladeshi…we are planning on having a small Bengali Muslim ceremony at his parents house, and then a larger civil ceremony/wedding reception later on (neither of us are particularly religious). Our plan for the Western wedding reception is to show a slideshow/have pics on hand of the Bengali ceremony, so all the guests could see those cultural traditions.

As for working in South Asian traditions into your Western ceremony…maybe your in-laws can lend you some Pakistani jewelry to wear? I also know a girl who is wearing a sari-print sash around the waist of her wedding gown.

Post # 4
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288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

hi!

i’m white american and my FI is american pakistani, his parents are from pakistan.

 

i’m wearing the white american dress for the first half and then changing into the traditional red dress and all the jewelry, tikka, etc for the 2nd half. (i was going to pick a turquiose pakistani dress but his parents went and bought the red one without me.)

 

the food is american but is halal. 

 

the ceremony will begin with the nikkah and then the civil vows.

 

we’re trying to have a mix of both music options.

 

still doing the traditional american first dance, father-daughter dance, mother-son dance etc. no bouquet toss or garter.

 

just some ideas of how you can have both sides! let us know what you decide. 🙂

Post # 5
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25 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Hey Ladies! My FI and I just got engaged last week. 🙂 I’m white American raised Christian, and he’s American Pakistani raised Muslim. Neither of us are religious but we’re quite spiritual. We’d like to have a non-religious garden wedding ceremony here in the US. We’ll probably have a separate Islamic ceremony in Lahore. Our American wedding will probably have decorative elements of his culture mixed into it. It’ll be fun planning everything over the next few months! 🙂

 

 

 

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