Panicking slightly

posted 3 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@allyfally:  Oh my! Try not to stress to the point that it ruins what is supposed to be a very special time for you!

Firstly, just find another celebrant (or do the courthouse thing, it may not be the traditional/conventional route but hey, if you aren’t too phased, who cares!)

In terms of the flower girl, are you paying for her dress? Are you really really set on her wearing a certain style? If not, ask the mother if she’d have an issue finding something as she obviously knows her daughters size best!

I’m positive at least all the important people will show up to your wedding so don’t worry about that! and if anyone has rsvp’d yes and doesn’t show up then they’re not worth having there.. the number of people at your wedding won’t define how special it is, the moments you share with those who are there is whats important!

In regards to your BM, similarly to the flowergirl you should probably put the ball in her court and just tell her to make sure she has something in the right colour/style on the day and let her sort it out. It’s added stress you don’t need! (plus BMs are meant to be there to help/support you!)

Now your grandmother.. i’m really not sure what to suggest as she does seem quite literally crazy lol is there anyone in the family who gets along best with her who can communicate the importance of her behaving and respecting the day? or convince her not to come? I would hate for you to have to go through the drama of calling the cops on your wedding day!

With all that said, in the grand scheme of things these will hopefully turn out to be minor speed bumps in an otherwise amazing time in your life (fingers crossed you can just look back and laugh at these moments!) Try and enjoy it, you don’t want to have regrets later on about focusing your time and energy on the wrong things. You’re marrying the love of your life, that’s what truly matters 🙂

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