Paranoid about smell.

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

You should really trust your man on this one. 😀

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If he had a problem with it, he wouldn’t try to go down on you at the end of a long day. He probably finds it to be a turn on. Let him do what he wants. : ) If you’re still self-conscious, you can always get some baby wipes or other wet wipes for a quick clean.

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Helper bee
  • Wedding: Aug 30th, 2014

Remember that things smell different to men! Where you think you smell like sweat or “ripe”, he is actually getting a wave of intoxicating pheromones that trigger lots of fun responses in his brain. Sex was never sterile, we are built to respond to chemical cues that are transmitted as scent. I know my fiance enjoys himself more if i haven’t showered right before 🙂

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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

prahajess:  

 

ITA, trust your loving man on this.  

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I may be wrong, but were you the bee with the seman aversion? (Please ignore, if not.) If so, though, I’m guessing that this is more of a mental hang-up rather than how anything actually smells. I also have a history of sexual abuse, and it can manifest when I don’t feel like I’m in control.

I used to have a dog that would chew the crotch out my dirty underwear. It would make my stomach turn when I really thought about it, but, big picture, he was happy & I didn’t have to do laundry. Win-win.

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I have an OCD need to be freshly washed before oral sex, its just a personal thing. I wouldnt be comortable with him going down right after I came home or anything like that. I would take a quick 2 mins to take a “whore bath” as my grandma calls it haha (scrub ur butt, hoo hoo and pits haha). But if your ok w it and he loves it then all is good! I’m sure he would say something or not do it if there was an issue. Enjoy yourself!

And your ex is a d bag. Do not let that affect your ability to enjoy your husband. He sounds like an immature ass.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

trust your guy & relax! But if you need something more, pick up a pack of summer’s eve disposable wipes! They always make me feel so fresh & clean! I keep a pack in my purse and bathroom. 

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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

Wow…that’s a lot of information…

Just keep some feminine wipes around if you’re worried about it. Easy.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’d say wipe off if that’s what makes YOU feel comfortable. Your husband says you don’t smell? Great! But if you feel better and more confident wiping down then so be it. Frankly some if your posts about sex and your husband make my heart hurt for you. He wants to come inside you so you have to get over it. He doesn’t want you to wipe off so you don’t. Where are you and your wants/needs/ sense of ease in this conversation? Most woman aren’t going to want a man going down on them if they feel unclean down there, that’s normal. 

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