parent and host couple gifts

posted 4 years ago in September 2013
Post # 3
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

This is so tough. We ve gone over so many ideas. I think we re getting my mom a fancy yoga bag as she a total yogi but wouldn’t spend $70+ on a bag. His parents a couplea massage at the hotel they’re staying at. Haven’t decided for my dad and step dad.  All the women are getting necklaces I makein my etsy shop (Prettypennyjewelery). They look like little pearl eggs in a silver nest representing each lady’s kids. In fact if you guys order and mention weddingbee ill give you a discount. The officiant and his wife got a gift certificate for brunch at a fancy malibu restaurant near our wedding site. 


Sentimental homemade cards for everyone. 


Anyway still curious as to what everyone else is doing…


Post # 4
1663 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Still trying to figure this out.


His parents made a significant contribution to our wedding (about 25% of the total budget) and have been super involved.  My parents are not really into the wedding, and not contributing financially.  I feel like this makes it more complicated too– of course I love my parents and want to get them something, but I also really want to acknowledge how much we appreciate his parents’ help.  

Here’s what we have so far:

His parents- 

floral robe for mom (got these for BMs too)

engraved pilsner glasses for dad (a spinoff of groomsman gift)

really nice wine

picture frame with an IOU for a wedding picture


My parents-

floral robe for mom 

picture frame with an IOU for a wedding picture


I feel like we need to add something to both sets, but I don’t know what!

Post # 6
1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My Dad didn’t want a present because he said “It would feel like you’re giving us back some of the money we’re contributing to your wedding which is not want I want” but Mum loves her presents so she is insisting we get them something 😛


So for Dad, we’re getting him a massage. He’s never had one before. 

For Mum, probably jewellery, she can’t get enough of it. 


For my sister, a lingerie voucher and her bridesmaid shoes.

For my best friend, some gold earrings and her bridesmaid shoes.


For the 2 groomsmen – a whiskey barrel with an engraved plaque, and a good bottle of whiskey each. 


Not getting his parents anything because they are not contributing financially. 

Post # 7
473 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

No frigging clue! I need to come up with something! My dad and stepmom are paying for a ridiculous amount and DF’s Mom is paying for the DJ, photo booth, and cocktails after the rehearsal. My Mom and his Dad aren’t paying for anything. I did put my Mom’s dress on my credit card (miles!!!!) and I know I won’t see a dime, so there’s her gift.

Post # 8
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Franklin Plaza

We were thinking of doing frames/albums with IOU’s but that’s about as far as we got.  Not really sure.  Tagging for ideas!

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