Post # 1
First though I want to say thank you to the Hive for all the hugs and support, it is truly appreciated, hugs to all of you, thank you.
After we got home I was so upset I packed a small bag and proceeded to leave, he got more angry and could not believe I was going to leave over this, he said he did not mean it that he was angry and didn’t know why he said that. UII just could not get over it. Why did he say that! There had to be a reason, not because he was just mad. I would never say that! The argument went on but got less heated, I was so hurt. He apologized that night and I forgave him.
The next days I just could not get it out of the back of my head, am I going to marry a man that does not really want to marry me, I could not stop thinking it, over and over.
So I told him last night that I was still very hurt and was scared he did not want to marry me.
He said “I proposed to you because there is nothing I want more then to marry you, and I would not have asked if I was not sure you were the one”
I cried again, I did need to hear that and I believe him whole heartedly. I love him and he loves me and like a previous poster on my 1st thread said, we all say things we regret and we do deserve forgiveness.
Love is strong and our love is no contest.
Post # 3
I am glad that you have found the end to this episode. I wish you the best and happiness. Everyone does deserve forgiveness, within reason, so lets hope he has learned his lesson. 🙂
Post # 4
I’m so glad things were resolved! Things like this are terrible to go through but ultimately make the relationship stronger.
Post # 5
Glad it was resolved. We do all say things that we shouldn’t, but I think this would be a good time to make some boundaries on that one…. I learned a long time ago that you cannot take back your words.. knowing this my FI and I have agreed that some things are just NOT acceptable to say… “leaving you” or anything along those lines fall under that. We both said we may say “other” things that may not be very nice but anything like that is not okay, for the mere fact of always wanting to stay unified.
It may be a good opportunity to draw those lines in the sand 😉
Post # 6
I’m so glad it all worked out ok for you. I hope you and your FI have an amazing life togehter, and I think you will.
Post # 7
I am so glad you are happy and that this has all been resolved.
Post # 8
Better to have these fights now, it would be worse after you are married. We do tend to say things we don’t mean because they make us feel good at that moment. I’m glad that you are happy and have resolved your hurt.
Post # 9
everyone fights, it’s how you deal with and end the fight that is important.
Post # 10
Thanks again laides!!!
Miss Meeps, you are sooo right!