Post # 1
- Wedding: July 2014 - Barn
Dont get me wrong, I am incredibly excited and very much looking forward to taking the next step with my SO. He said he would propose by October 5th so I only have a few weeks to wait. I’m simultaniously enjoying this time, and hating it! I’m so on edge wondering how he’ll do it, when it will be, and can’t help think every time he opens his mouth, “This is it!”. I like the adrenalin rush but I also just want him to do it already, darn it!
Anyone else have the same feelings?
Post # 3
@allinoelle: After my SO popped the question, I kept having moments where I would be so sad it’s over. I waited and dreamed about that moment my entire life, then all of a sudden it was over! I am having a blast planning my wedding and am so very excited to marry this man, but absolutely wish I could have a proposal again and again and again (from him of course!). I shared that I was sad that the proposal was over with him, so every so often, out of the blue, he’ll get down on his knee and say those magic words that give me butterflies every single time…I don’t think I’ll ever get sick of it! (I know, so incredibly cheesy – but I love it so much that I could change my name to ms. cheeseball)
Post # 4
Well fellow bee you are a LOT closer than I am (have no set proposal date yet). On my very good days when I am not sooooo obsessed with marriage, the BF will bring it up and I will have anxiety over realizing what being engaged means-that you are more committed than BF/GF status, and that you will have a ton of work planning a wedding-even if you have a planner decisions will have to be made and it does become overwhelming and make me feel okay with the fact that I’m only waiting instead of engaged and planning a wedding!
Good luck and congrats!
Post # 5
I have picked my ring and my so is paying it off. Due to Xmas etc it has been pushed back to around end of jan apparently ( I can’t complain ts an expensive ring). At the beginning I was itching like mad to get it but now I know when it’s coming I’m beginning to feel I should enjoy these last few months of having a ringless finger, however I do find myself starif at my hand constantly imaging how damn beautiful my hand will be by end of jan hahahaha
Post # 6
Eeek! I think we all feed off of the rush of the unknown. Like we know it’s going to happen, but no exactly sure when or where.
SO kept mentioning graduation the other day. All I can think is great, I’m gonna to be double the emotional wreck!