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posted 8 months ago in Parties
  • poll: Which sounds like the most fun?
    Have lunch then paint ceramics : (5 votes)
    24 %
    Lunch Only : (1 votes)
    5 %
    Winery Tour : (15 votes)
    71 %
    Post to this thread and make a kind suggestion : (0 votes)
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    MrsJoon    November 20, 2011   Southern California

    I am not a traditional person. I am having a private(parents are the only guests) ceremony in November, and we're going to have a reception separately (likely in December or January). I'm not going to get into my reasoning for doing this because people on these boards get all etiquette-crazy and their opinion on that matter is not desired.

    Anyhow, one of my best friends wants to throw me a party or shower, or as we're calling it "bride day." I am looking for some ideas of what to do. She told me to figure out what I wanted to do and she'd put it together. This is a non-gifting event for two reasons: the economy sucks, I value the friendships and quality time more than a gift.

    So far, I've thought of lunch and going to a ceramics painting place, just lunch, winery tasting or spa day. I want to be cost conscious but would still like it to be fun.

    Any helpful and non critical suggestions would be appreciated.

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    @MrsJoon: Winery all the way! People can spend as little or as much as they want doing this.

     
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    Melie12    July 6, 2012   MA

    This is a non-gifting event for two reasons: the economy sucks, I value the friendships and quality time more than a gift

    Could not agree more with that! And I also agree on the winery. I'm a bit biased I suppose since I love wine ;) Spa day also sounds very fun. One can get their nails done. Another their feet etc. So there's more options there. Or heck, you can do both.

     
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    MrsJoon    November 20, 2011   Southern California

    @mwitter80 I probably should have mentioned that the winery tours are like $95 a person and they go to 4 wineries. I guess we could go to just one, eat lunch and then do a tasting. Hmm

     
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    kala_way    May 28, 2011   Manhattan Beach, CA

    I'm not a wine drinker so the ceramics painting would be the most fun for me :)

     
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    cllyons    May 7, 2011  

    ive actually done the ceramics thing as a bridal shower before and it was fun

     
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    MsB_to_bee    May 1, 2014   VA

    I voted winery tour, but the $95 might be a bit steep depending on how much your friends want to spend. I personally love going to a local winery and bringing a picnic lunch. That way you can do a tasting, then get a glass of your favorite to drink while you eat!

    Ceramics sounds fun though too, maybe you could do that afterwards to make it a whole day event?

     
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    MightySapphire      

    Like a bachelorette party?  We did a spa day for mine and I loved it.  You could also consider doing something retro and kind of out there like going bowling or mini-golfing if you and your friends would dig that.

     

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