(Closed) Past Crush popped in mind but engaged- HELP BEES!!!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5007 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

For one day, yes it’s normal. For several months, probably not. Also, thinking about someone is much different than fantasizing about them or wanting to be with them. Calm down, you’re just freaking yourself out and will think about it more. Like if you tell someone “don’t think of a pink elephant,” they will think of a pink elephant. 

Post # 5
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Not a big deal. Fleeting thoughts are normal. If you start missing him or wanting to reach out, then we have issues. Relax! You’re guilt is keeping your mind on it.

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