Pay Your Own Way or Not?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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2623 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am leaning towards paying your own way.

I understand why its a formal invite, because she wants formal RSVPs since it requires reservations for both the sail and dinner (assuming you would have to pay for both) his however, it would be better if it were more clear.

I would send her a quick email confirming. “Dear JJ, Thanks for the invite. Could you please clarify if this is a hosted or non-hosted event?”

Post # 5
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1911 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I read this as, if you are only coming to one part of the night, let me know which one so I can properly reserve it. When you order a la cart at a restaurant, you are picking one item instead of a whole meal. 

Post # 7
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139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Andthepupmakes3:  +1, I read it the same way if you can only attend one part that’s fine but to specify which part

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