peed during sex?????

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Helper bee

jerrymae:  Did he mention anything? If not, it’s possible he might have just assumed you squirted. 

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB

Most likely you didn’t pee. At times (do not quote me on the science!) when a womans g spot is touched to the point of the big O she can emite a clear fluid. NOT PEE.

Sounds like yall had a GREAT TIME!!!! And your boo didn’t seem too bothered if he kindly returned to the fun. I’d let it go…and go enjoy that man! 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Sunset Hills Country Club

You don’t need to go to the dr. If you did pee, that can happen when you’re stimulated to the point of the big o and you have a full bladder. You’re normal, though it wasn’t a normal situation for you.

 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Sunset Hills Country Club

 

jerrymae:  My husband is a nurse and sometimes I start asking him off the wall questions, and if he doesn’t know the answer, we google. It’s a fun, weird way we pass the time sometimes. I, too, am the kind who doesn’t get embarrassed too easily, so I can imagine what you’re going through. I would text him later and see how his day is going to see if there is a weird vibe, but chances are he doesn’t care. As my husband says, “If a guy is willing to f*** you, he doesn’t care about embarrassing things that may happen.”

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

jerrymae:  You are just fine- no need to be embarrassed! 

If you want to remedy the situation and take a load off your shoulders maybe approach it like: “hey man friend, I had so much fun the other night and it felt incredible! I kinda made a mess cause you got me so excited- I’d like to wash your sheets for you and maybe buy us dinner?” 

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee

meowmeow071914:  I really like this answer! 

I know it’s embarrassing (I’d be mortified, too – I’d panic and obsess over it for hours on end), but there’s no need to let him know what a big deal you think it is. Maybe it’s not as big a deal to him as it is with you. A lighthearted message would let him know you’ve got a sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously.

Funny story that might cheer you up: One night when we were in bed, my partner farted on me when he was asleep. I wasn’t (too) grossed out or anything – I just chuckled and went back to sleep. I didn’t think he was disgusting, and I didn’t think any less of him. I’m guessing this is what you’re worrying about with your partner. I’m just assuming he feels the same way I did after the fart incident: it was icky for a hot second, then it was something I found amusing and got over pretty quickly.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

jerrymae:  okay so i’ve had that happen before- but not much came out so it wasn’t a big deal. however, here’s a story that will make you feel better: my DH(then just dating) and i had slept together maybe 2 times. it was all fine, although he wasn’t very experienced so it was slow going lol. the third time, it was on the last day of my period. it was sooooo light all day and just barely spotting, i figured i was totally in the clear so i didn’t even mention it because i’ve had sex on that day many times with no issues. well, huge mistake. started bleeding all over him during sex, and he was totally caught off guard. he was really sweet (he always is) and was worried he had hurt me or something. i was mortified of course. he stayed over, and the next time we discussed it was years and years later, and he barely even remembered it. so i really doubt that your guy will notice, and if he did he’ll just think it was a normal sex thing. no worries!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

I have no advice really on how to deal with this new man friend, but I have a story to share:

When SO and I first started dating I came over and he had pizza. I dont like mushrooms and they don’t really like me but I tried to be polite and eat around/pickoff what I could. Later on we fooled around (this was maybe our second session, hadn’t slept together yet) and I gave him oral, not once but twice in the span of maybe 2 hours. I did a ‘complete’ job and was very proud of myself.

Fast forward maybe 30 mins, outside having a cigarette and I got this overwhelming feeling that I was going to be sick. No time to make it inside, so there I am puking in the bushes.

SO still jokes about it to this day…. sigh

 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have to laugh! I’m sorry! Don’t be embarassed. His handy work was apparently amazing!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

jerrymae:  

Happens to the best of us. No need to be upset…just make sure that you pee before sex.

Female ejaculate can have traces of urine in it as well.

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