Majestic: That was totally perfect what you said at the end
"wow, i haven't heard from you in forever! how have you been?"
Maybe that'll clue her in that you haven't been in touch in a loooooooooooong time.
As for my issue:
FSIL is in her early twenties, doesn't help out at all at home. It would totally be a slap in the face for her mom if she dropped a couple hundred dollars to invite her 2 friends and dates to "party" but complains when her mother ask to borrow 5 bucks! So far I haven't heard anything about this but then again I haven't seen her since. I'm hoping to FI that it's one of those "Out of site out of mind" moments so we wouldn't have to add them on our guest list. Lol I don't think it's fair for me to cut off some people I've known "forever" and then turn around and add on other people that FI and I truely do not care about. Kind of mean to say but that's the truth.
Majestic: That was totally perfect what you said at the end
"wow, i haven't heard from you in forever! how have you been?"
Maybe that'll clue her in that you haven't been in touch in a loooooooooooong time.
As for my issue:
FSIL is in her early twenties, doesn't help out at all at home. It would totally be a slap in the face for her mom if she dropped a couple hundred dollars to invite her 2 friends and dates to "party" but complains when her mother ask to borrow 5 bucks! So far I haven't heard anything about this but then again I haven't seen her since. I'm hoping to FI that it's one of those "Out of site out of mind" moments so we wouldn't have to add them on our guest list. Lol I don't think it's fair for me to cut off some people I've known "forever" and then turn around and add on other people that FI and I truely do not care about. Kind of mean to say but that's the truth.
posted by NorCalBride 4 months ago