Weddingbee boards

Ok so i chose my 3 BFF's to stand in my wedding and told them i can't pick so they are all my maid of honors. I am helping 2 with their weddings comming up so i went dress shopping for bridesmaid dresses with one of them today for her wedding because i am her maid of honor. We were looking at dresses and she kept telling me that she can make me whear anything beacue i am makeing her wear a orange wipcream dress she hates because orange does not look good on her. ( i had the dresss for a few years now becasue our wedding was sapost to be in fall but it got cancled due to my dad being sick. I bought all 3 dresses at a store in the mall for $30 each and thought i would just keep the same dresses for my summer wedding to save the girls money) I finaly told her if all the girls don't like the dress that we can get new ones but than they have to pay for thier own because i can't afford to buy them. So she went and found dresses she likes to try on for my wedding. I don't know what to do. I don't mind changing the dresses but should it not be my choice since this is my wedding. she is picking the ones for hers. idk kind of just a little irked at her