Post # 1
I was on my best friend’s wedding last sunday. Me and my FI were chatting with another couple of friends who go married last March, when a lady came and greeted us happily (everyone was all “oooh you are next” on us that night lol) and turned to my friends and said “I am still angry at you” and left.
My friends said it was because they couldn’t invite the lady to the wedding. Lol! If only she knew we won’t be able to invite her either to our wedding.
People just don’t get sometimes how expensive a wedding can be, specially when you have a big guest list.
FI commented how lightly he took when someone invited him to a wedding (he was like “oh nice, a party”) but now he gets how special is to be included in a wedding guest list.
Unbelievable how insensitive people can be sometimes!
Post # 3
@AnaA: I hear ya. My coworker (who I’ve known for ten years and am inviting) told me the other day that she’s excited cause she just found out that she’s off the weekend of my wedding so she doesn’t have to worry about maybe not being able to be there. I was excited and said great, and then she said she now has to check with her boyfriend to see if he’ll be able to get off since he works that day. Quite the awkward moment for me as her bf is NOT invited. They have been dating for like 6 months, I literally just met him once for five two minutes at a mutual friend’s wedding last month and I’m certainly not paying $120 bucks for his dinner plate so he can attend. There will be other mutual friends there who will also not be allowed to bring a +1 that she will be sitting next to. I kinda froze for a second when she made that comment and didn’t say anything right then and there. But the other day I casually mentioned how I am having a somewhat small and intimate wedding and that I wasn’t give +1’s to many people… And that I’m only inviting people that I am very close to. She was cool about, thankfully.
Post # 4
@Diamond84: Ugh, I am so going to hate those awkward moments lol
Thankfully so far I haven’t had any!
Post # 5
@AnaA: Lol, yea it was weird. I’m sure I’ll have more as wedding gets closer but oh well!