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    tammys1977    March 3, 2012   Michigan

    I have 3 and a half weeks til the big day! I think I get asked about 5 times a day, "Are you nervous?"

    I don't think I have time to be nervous!!! I am so overwhelmed every day with little tasks that still need to be done.  I am so excited for the big day, but also so ready for all this planning to be done :)

    So far I feel like I'm keeping up with things pretty well.  I just fear I'm going to forget something really important.  I have a list running in my head, I really need to get it down on paper!

    So... How about the rest of you with dates coming up soon?  Are you nervous? Or overwhelmed like me?

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    im at 6 weeks almost and people ask me also!! Why would ibe nervous to marry my best friend??!!

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    the day before our wedding we were on the beach making plans for a night scuba dive and someone said to me "are you nervous"

    i responded "no, its only a night dive" and the person said "no! are you nervous about getting married tomorrow!!"

    ohhhhhhhh - i forgot about that

     
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    80sbee    November 10, 2012  

    I think the reason why a lot of people ask is because all eyes are going to be on you and your man.... if it makes you nervous, picture your guests in their underwear.. hahaha!

     
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    tammys1977    March 3, 2012   Michigan

    @MrsStrawberry24:  I feel the same way! Why would I be nervous to marry the man of my dreams :)

     

     

    @80sbee:  That makes sense.  A lot of people get "stage fright".  I know two separate people who took Xanax on their wedding day.  That is so strange to me! 

     
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    BerryBerry    December 20, 2012   Australia

    Haha, last bride I knew I kept asking if she was nervous becasue I really didn't know what else to ask!

    It's like 'Are you excited? Are you nervous?'

    Ok, well, um..

    Once someone's wedding was only a few weeks away there was really nothing else 'weddingy' I could ask them lol!

     

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    I'm nervous as shit, I'm 3 months out. Lately my phrase is always "holy shiiiit."

     
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    BerryBerry    December 20, 2012   Australia

    @tammys1977:  

    Wow, serious?? They couldn't marry their fiance in front of their friends and family without being drugged?

    Shoot. Well... each to their own I guess.

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    We are date twins! Sometimes people ask me this, but usually it's "Are you excited?" I am more excited than nervous, and I feel like, duh, I'm obviously excited, or I wouldn't be doing this...

    I keep my nerves under control by making sure things are organized, but not micro-managing, and by sticking to my usual, non-wedding related yoga, running, and strength-training routine.

     
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    tammys1977    March 3, 2012   Michigan

    @brenda.m.fields:  I just recently started taking yoga classes and I love it!!!  They are very relaxing and you really can't think about anything else when you're doing yoga. 

    Yay for date twins! It's so close now!!!

     

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