People who post their wedding drama on Facebook…

posted 3 years ago in Technology
Post # 3
Member
36 posts
Newbee

That is really terrible. I TOTALLY agree. I am appalled at what people post on Fbook on a daily basis. I really feel these people are craving attention-and lots of it. I know someone who is constantly doing this but it’s regarding her kids. The stuff she posts is unbelievable….really.Posting pictures of your kid in the ER because they are really sick… how about take care of your kid and get off the internet!! I really don’t think they realize no one wants to read all of their drama. I have to ‘hide’ certain people because I really can’t take it! 

Post # 4
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7400 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I hate fb. I think it is one of the worst things ever invented.

That said I don’t see the difference between posting wedding drama on fb and posting it anywhere else on the internet like here. Actually at least they are being upfront and not doing it behind people’s back. People can see their true colours and decide if they want to keep them in their lives, instead of thinking that everything is ok.

Post # 5
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10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Wow. Like the people she’s calling out aren’t going to see that? How childish. 

Post # 7
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2878 posts
Sugar bee

People obviously forgot you could take a phone, dial a number, and talk directly to the person to confirm they’ll be there, or ask them why they didn’t show up. Their good old 90’s self would have done that to resolve the issue.

Why does everything now needs to become public knowledge ?

 

Post # 9
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10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

@FutureMrsT1221:  Oh wow. I don’t get why people do that so publicly but I love reading it for the entertainment value! 

Post # 11
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1040 posts
Bumble bee

When my dress came in, and it was wrong, and I had to send it back, I was devastated… so I posted about it on FB, along with a picture of cereal and red wine that I was having for dinner that night to ease the stress.

However, complaining about PEOPLE, is totally different. That doesn’t even have to be specifically wedding related to be annoying.

But personally, I hate when people post positive sh*t all the time. (ex: “Good morning world! Ready to tackle today!”… “I feel so blessed, I just wanted to let everyone know I love you all!”)….for fuck’s sake… lol

Post # 13
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4698 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@FutureMrsT1221:  I find that kind of status a bit unnecessary regardless of the topic (wedding or otherwise) but I just keep scrolling when I see something I don’t like… and if these things come regularly from a certain person I am not shy about hiding them!

ETA: Posting about dramatic THINGS is fine to me, everybody needs to vent, but it seems uncouth to vaguebook about individuals passive aggresively. 

Post # 14
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1896 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Bebealways:  THIS.

I almost posted the other day about how the least people could do is send a tiny note back on the stamped and pre-addressed envelope you provided to let you know they’re not attending your wedding.  It would have shown up to several non-close family who have not rsvp’d yet.  Ultimately I decided that as much as I wanted to share my vent, it was not very gracious and it wouldn’t make anything better.

Post # 15
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6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@FutureMrsT1221:  Thankfully, I haven’t had anyone do this about their wedding. I do have a friend who is a single mom, recent divorced, struggling. We’ve spoken in private and I totally understand that her life is really hard right now but she posts so much shit of FB all the time and it’s making me crazy. Just this week she’s posted that she wishes her kid had an off button, discribed her studio apartment as “400 feet of hell”, complained about her new job EVERY DAY and said “people need to stop telling me to hang in there and offer me some help!” as though it’s somehow my job to make her life better. She’s asked me for 3 loans in the past 5 months. I’M UNEMPLOYED. It’s insane. 

Post # 16
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1104 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I get irritated with ANY wedding stuff honestly…expect the OCCASIONAL post. Unless you are inviting every single one of your Facebook friends, I think it is rude.

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