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    Scottish_lassie       Scotland

    Hi guys,

    Since I have approx 650 days left in which my SO is going to propose, I have made a list of things to do to distract myself (also to do in general because after I won't have the time or money lol). I think the idea came from Mr Bee's Guide but also from my own training into treating anxiety.

    Anyhooo! I have made a list that includes everyhting from buying wellies to save X amount of money.

    Just wondered if anyone was doing the same still (I know there was another thread with this theme but I can't find it :-() and if you were willing to share and motivate each other :-)

     
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    Scottish_lassie       Scotland

    Here's some of my list:

    1. Clear out clothes and take to charity shop

    2. Enter at least 2 creative writing competitions

    3. Start better beauty routine

    4. Pay off student loan!

     
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    missjuli    May 12, 2013   Syracuse, NY

    Such a great idea! I'm going to join you.

    1. Lose 20lbs.

    2. Stealing your's-- Faithfully follow a beauty routine.

    3. Find more gainful and meaningful employment.

     
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    WestCoast    May 2013   Canada

    Good work guys! I love this. 

    It sounds like my proposal will be coming within the next 3 months so I'm glad I've alrestarter started!

    -stop biting nails so hands look great for ring (done)

    -lose 10 pounds down to 125lbs (already part way)

    -save money (trying)

    -focus on studying for my professional designation while I have time  (failing miserably)

     

    Good luck to all!!

     

     
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    pharmy      

    Mostly likely sometime between late spring and early fall is when I'm thinking he'll do it...before then I want to:

    - Lose 1 lb a week (been doing okay. Last week I didn't lose, but didn't gain either!)

    - Grow out my hair another couple of inches

    - Start doing more girly things, like accessorizing, painting my nails, and maybe actually wearing heels.

    - Learn to cook something other than pot roast and grilled cheese sandwiches!

     
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    MissBoPeep       New England

    I made a list last year!

    1. Get out of debt & pay off all of my credit cards - Done!
    2. Lose weight - Down from 175 and only 15lbs from my goal weight!
    3. Grow out my hair - I'm going to need to cut it soon because I went from a pixie cut to down to the middle of my back!
    4. Start saving for the wedding - Work in progress.  :)

    Right now I'm mainly focusing on saving money and losing weight, I should add getting in a better house keeping routine too, the avoid it until I can't avoid it anymore method isn't working so well! I think my new list will be:

    1. Get down to goal weight and get more toned.
    2. Keep on saving for the wedding!
    3. Get in a better housekeeping routine. 
     
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    treacle      

    Oooh I've got between 2 and 7 months for SO to propose... in 2 months he gets a huge financial investment which is quite exciting and in 7 I turn 26 (he said he'll do it once I'm 25)

     

    So I am in the process of...

    1. losing weight and getting toned (mostly tone up my arms! - i'd like to lose a dress size and ideally get below 9st/126lb)
    2. get my skin in a better condition! i get so many breakouts and i hate them!
    3. keep my nails beautiful at all times - don't want to take a pic of the ring with bad nails!
    4. save. save save save. Mr P would like a £3.5k watch as a wedding present and I am determined to get it for him.
    5. Start buying better clothes/be more stylish.
    6. Make more of an effort to look nice around Mr P. Stay out of my PJs for as long as possible and wear my contacts on the weekends.
     
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    jpalm13    December 21, 2012  

    1. Start working out again- Done thanks to insanity

    2. Cook more & better- Work in progress

    3. Save more money- Always working on

    4. Find new job

    5. Get rid of black heads

    6. Stop nail biting for good- I think I need some vitamin help on this one, they're sooo weak and chip constantly

     
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    WaitingtoBee    May 3, 2013   Ireland

    @treacle:  haha!  I love your comment on not wearing pj's anymore... I always throw on my tracksuit/ sweatpants & hoody when I get home from work.  I should probably make more of an effort.  Right, here goes:

    1.  Make more of an effort ie try not to wear tracksuit too often

    2.  Get my nails into tip top shape

    3.  Grow my hair and get it into better condition

    4.  Get back into running & sign up for a half marathon

    5.  Get into a masters programme

     
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    1. Continue to tone up

    2. Save money

    3. Grow my hair longer

    4. Look for jobs in my field in the industry I want to be in

    5. Work on crafts I find on pinterest

    6. Decorate our apartment

    7. Convince SO I need a puppy =)

     
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    missjuli    May 12, 2013   Syracuse, NY

    @newenglandgirl:  Hahaha the puppy one is pretty cute :)

     
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    future.mrs.c    April 12, 2013  

    This is a great idea!

    1. Working out 3-5 times a week.  Lose weight and tone up...already started doing this

    2. Focus on work and saving more money

    3. Do/ learn more crafty projects (scrapbooks, flower arrangements...)

    4. Pinterest (this one is just fun and a distraction) :)

    Focusing on these goals and hobbies has really made a huge improvement during this waiting period

     
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    Pollywog    July 13, 2013  

    I did this when I started getting antsy about the proposal (hopefully between 9 and 20 days left for me now!!). My list includes:

    1. Run. I hate it, but he loves it and I live in Arlington so it is kind of something that we are supposed to do Foot in Mouth. I've been running about 10 miles per week for the past 2 months.

    2. Get in amazing shape. I want great "we're engaged!" photos to post. As a result I have been doing body pump three times a week, plus running, plus elliptical and swimming and rock climbing. I feel great and see results!

    3. Learn to rock climb the real way. It was a huge part of SO's life and it is something that means a lot to him. I wanted to participate with him.

    4. Grow my hair out so that I can have a strapless dress and my hair can be down and curled and cover the top of the dress (conservative church). I am 6 inches away.. totally doable!

     
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    MissTX    May 17, 2013   Texas

    Oh wow :) So inspiring! Good thread!!

    -Lose 10 lbs
    -Try to stop being such a procrastinator (with literally everything)
    -Be more positive!
    -Start classes again (to get my BA)
    -Save money!!!
     

     
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    Mouse217    October 18, 2014   Dallas, TX

    Yay, goals! You ladies have some great ideas. I hope you accomplish all you set out to!

    For me...

    1.) Open an Etsy shop by the end of the year. (Considering selling my arts & crafts in one shop & wedding decor in another.)

    2.) Grow my hair & nails out. (Nails are growing steadily & super strong, thanks to good ol' Nutra Nail; hair is in that awkard "can't do anything w/it except put it in a bun" stage, but progressing.)

    3.) Stick to a good skincare routine. (Clinique has done wonders for my humongous pores & occasional breakouts.)

    4.) Lose 25 lbs. by July (Comic Con/San Diego trip). (Have lost 10 lbs. in the past six weeks.)

    5.) LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST. (I've always considered myself pretty good @ this, but you can always get better!)

    Good luck to all my fellow bees! :-)

     
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    Scottish_lassie       Scotland

    @Pollywog:  Oh wow, not a long wait then :-) Fingers crossed

     
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    bloodtipped    June 20, 2015  

    I don't get it :P How do you girls know when he's going to propose????

     
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    missjuli    May 12, 2013   Syracuse, NY

    How's everyone doing on their list? I haven't been to the gym since last Monday but I went skiing on Saturday. Tuesday a guest artist came to my dance studio and did a master class and my butt is considering itself officially kicked!

    Then yesterday I subbed for my boss's jazz class and they wanted to do crunches so we didn't about 20 minutes of muscle toning activities!

    Yesterday I had a slice of chocolate pie :( but after I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror, I was like "this stuff is working!" so no more pie for me. And I don't feel sad either.

     
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    MissBoPeep       New England

    @missjuli:  I'm doing ok on mine!

    1. Get down to goal weight and get more toned. - Slacking in this department, but I did some lunges in my office at work lol and I'm going to the gym on Saturday!
    2. Keep on saving for the wedding! - Still saving, I got paid yesterday and put a chunk in my savings account.  I should have $8000 by the end of the year if all goes well.
    3. Get in a better housekeeping routine. - I could be doing better, but I did manage to do laundry last night even though I really didn't feel like it!
     
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    sillie    September 2013  

    i love this! thanks for starting this thread. :)

    -save money (hopefully a good chunk by year end)

    -focus on the positive things of waiting

    -cook more

     
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    nineteen87    March 19, 2015   Bay Area CA, US

    I have a lot on my list.

    -Finish my bachelors (about another 2-3 years)

    -Go on our research trip to Europe (to pick a place to live/me get my masters)

    -See many things in the US- for might possibly be our last time being here.

    >real chicago pizza

    >Creole food

    >Visist TX again

    >Yellowstone

    >Yosemite

    >Utah

    >Colorado

    -Get back to 145lbs

    -Go on a REAL vacation

     

     

     

    (I know many of these are far away... I just told my SO I want to be engaged before moving to Europe- I want a bigger commitment before making such a big move)

     
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    aquawater       South Dakota

    @bloodtipped:  Most of these ladies do not know exactly when their SO is going to propose. :) However, most of them have a rough timeline to work with, some have nothing, and a few have an SO that has let something slip regarding the proposal!

     
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    futuremrste    December 28, 2013  

    BF and I bought a ring on Saturday, but I have no idea when he's going to give it to me. I'll play because there are things I want to do before we get married:

    1. lose 25 lbs

    2. get a breast reduction

    3. pay off 1/2 of my current debt

    4. stick to a beauty regiment

    5. Grow out my hair as long as possible

    6. decide on a new hair colour (or get my hair coloured back to the original to get rid of my highlights that I got forever ago. They're subtle enough that you don't really notice them unless you know they're there).

     
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    hassle_J       Denver, Co

    Great idea!  I'm hoping for an April/May proposal, and here's my list:

    - Grow nails out

    - Take my multi vitamin every day (I'm so bad)

    - lose 15 lbs (3 down so far)

    - Pay down my credit card by 50% by end of year

    - Increase my 401k contribution

     
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    red dino      

    I'm reviving this thread...just because I want too :)

    My list has:1.  Continue on my healthy living weight loss journey (I have a long way to go)2.  Get more items listed on my etsy shop3.  Finish my masters degree --> This one is the biggest and most time consuming! 

     
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    lilianbell    November 3, 2015   Sydney, Australia

    I love the idea of this!

      1. Keep growing my hair but keep it healthy (ie, get a trim already)
      2. Read all the books I've bought from Betterworldbooks and havent yet read
      3. Throw everything into my projects at work
      4. Get better at cooking

      ETA - keep saving! I'm ok 22k at the moment... Would like at least 30k. 

      I hope that's enough to keep me going...!

       
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      Sminthy    July 13, 2013   Ontario, Canada

      I love this thread too!! I've been doing hinges to distract myself from the dreadful waiting though, but it may be working against me, well at least the hair!

      1. Pay off Visa - Done

      2. Pay off EVIL 407 Bill - Done

      3. Pay off Mastercard - so close..then debt free!! (this is what he's waiting for...done June 8th)

      4. Go on vacation....DOMINICAN here we come (May 26th...for SO's bday)

      5. Dive into more artsy projects (making cards and creative diaper cakes)

      6. Grow Hair out (so is begging me to cut it short again and it's not even past my shoulders YET..hehe)

       
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      I figure I have 2-5 months to go...

      -refinance the house

      -purge my house of unnecessary stuff

      -figure out what kind of ring I want

      -start a workout routine

      -spend time with friends

      -savor and have fun with the last few months of being a girlfriend

      -take a vacation

      -feel "on top of things" lol...good luck with that one! 

       
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      MsLonnieBee    May 18, 2013   nj

      Oh! im right there with you Bees

      1. brought at home gel kit started 2 weeks ago make my nails stronger

      2. lose this puggy pugggy been hitting the gym and corset training

      3. grow out my hair i hve been taking high dose biotin speed up hair growth

      4. start towards my career ... i have a interview mon 

       
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      Booknerd    March 14, 2015  

      Here's my list! (So far, anyways.)

      1. Get down to 175-180 lbs.

      2. Have enough money saved up to travel around Europe for a month for the Honeymoon.

      3. Have my Master's Degree or have a secured job.

      4. Hit up all my Florida spots on my travel list.

      5. Adopt a puppy & Kitty with SO.

      6. Learn to love myself fully.

       

       
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      softballchic_2006    October 18, 2014  

      I love this idea!! Heres my list so far: (keep in mind im a busy girl!)

      1.) Survive my graduation and RN pinning (2 of these 2 years in a row, my lpn last year, and helping host have kicked my bootay!)

      2.) Get my bottom back in shape

      3.) finish moving back closer to home (by the end of the month)

      4.) Find memorial statue for my sister

      5.) Clean out the black hole that is my closet...donate old clothes (who knew there is such a thing as too many shoes... *sigh*)

      6.) Look into Lasix eye surgery and possibly get it.

      7.) bite the bullet and finally get my wisdom teeth pulled like my dentist has harped at me for 8 months to do

      8.) Take a VACATION! I have no idea where, or when but Im taking a vacation!

       
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      wolfpackforever    February 7, 2014   Reno-Tahoe Metro Area

      Hmmm.....this sounds like a much better idea that worrying and waiting for Mr. Right to show up....

      So, my waiting list:

      1. Learn to deal with my Ex-H and make the trip out as much as is necessary to enjoy parenting and visiting with my daughter.

      2. Apply to and finish the process to transfer to the university.

      3. Pass my Driver's License test

      4. FINALLY pass that math class that has been keeping me from moving forward with my educational goals.

      5. Lose 80lbs.

      6. Learn to be able to do my own hair.....without whining.

       

       

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