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PETITION TO BRING BACK BANNED MEMBERS!

posted 1 year ago in Weddingbee
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    MandaMack    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    The mass banning is horrible, and now I have no way of getting in touch with people who I have become friends with.

    I am starting this as a petition to get banned members back, my top priority is Lezlers, although I strongly believe unless they did something on this site they should be allowed back in.

    Signed - MandaMack!

     
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    sailor    May 2010  

    Other than Lezlers (who I also like), who all got banned that you want back?

     
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    AnneTossy    October 8, 2011   Virginia

    What?! Who else got banned and why!?

     
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    Mrs. Meowerson    May 12, 2012  

    why was lezlers banned? she was posting here as recently as yesterday...

     
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    Donnica22    August 27, 2011   Marietta, GA

    How do you get banned???

     
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    florence    August 11, 2012   Canada

    Somehow I knew that Lezlers was one of the users who would get banned when I read this thread.  Spidey senses...

     
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    jayce    December 10, 2010  

    So far, I know of 3 members who were well-respected and actively contributing members of the community that were banned for no good reason.

    lezlers, arenyth, and mncrk09

    There are probably many more.

    Signed,

    jayce

     
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    Prettyinpink89    January 1991   N/A

    Sign Here..... Prettyinpink89 :)

     

    Done!

     
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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    @AnneTossy: I posted about the bans here:

    http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/follow-up-on-one-time-amnesty

    Members of that private snark board were given one-time amnesty... some users chose to ignore that, hence the bans.

     
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    ohheavenlyday    August 20, 2011   Savannah, Georgia

    *Moment of silence for our fallen comrade, Lezlers.*

     
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    jayce    December 10, 2010  

    See this thread for mr bee's reasons, PM me if you want to know more... http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/follow-up-on-one-time-amnesty

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    @jayce: Someone on the other thread said that deliciousappleblue was banned as well.

    ETA: From what I can see, luckyprincess, izziebear and Mrs.tobe were too.

     
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    MandaMack    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    @mrbee: You never said if they didn't immediately stop posting on the other site they'd be banned here.  I got the impression that as long as you weren't a "ring leader" you would be fine, so I'm sure others thought the same thing.  I just want to be able to contact my friends, by banning them you have killed any opportunity for me to at least get their e-mail address or something.

     
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    AnneTossy    October 8, 2011   Virginia

    Gotcha! Just read it and got caught up. Never a dull moment on the bee!

     
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    Donnica22    August 27, 2011   Marietta, GA

    OHHH YESS!! I remember now!!

    @ohheavenlyday: LOL!!!

     
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    MandaMack    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    @Mrs. Meowerson: Lezlers was banned because she joined the "evil" site and started posting trying to get granted access to the super-duper private boards just because she was curious.

     
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    jayce    December 10, 2010  

    @MandaMack: Yes, exactly. We ARE grown women, and I think we ARE allowed to see for ourselves whether or not something is the truth. lezlers was just checking it out to make her own judgments about the boards and about the people on it, but apparently she's not allowed such liberties. Not in mr bee's domain anyway.

     
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    MandaMack    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    Hey Mods...could someone shoot Lezlers an email and tell her to message me at my Blog or something???  And let her know that I totally petitioned...

    SEEING AS YOU'VE MADE IT SO THAT I CAN'T CONTACT HER MYSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!

     
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    Mrs. Meowerson    May 12, 2012  

    im so confused.  you can create a private thread?

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    @Mrs.KMM: Mrs.tobe got banned!? I really liked her! :(

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    @Mrs. Meowerson: Yeah i dont get that either....

     
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    MandaMack    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    @Mrs. Meowerson: Not here, on the "evil" site.  They made some topics super private so only certain people could read them.

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    @Miss.Lace: Yeah, I'm trying to understand the whole 'private' board. How would that even be done??

     
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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    @jayce: Sorry ladies.  We tried being hands off for months, and the situation has only gotten worse.  I finally realized that we had to take action in order to be taken seriously.

    The snarky site was being used to do more than just coordinate snark and troll attacks.  The final straw was when some members posted about setting up a pre-meetup meetup to coordinate making fun of bees at an Weddingbee meetup.

    When I heard that, I realized that things had gone on for too long.  If the snarky boards are going to allow their members to coordinate pre-meetup snark and then meet up afterward to laugh at meetup members... well, then you guys are clearly not doing a good enough job of keeping your snark limited to your forums.

    And that's why we were forced to take action.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    @Miss.Lace: I was going through Mr. Bee's original thread on the topic and it no longer said "Member" under her name.

    Someone on the other thread said that ejs4y8 is gone too.  Now that makes me really sad.  She contributed a ton and was really helpful!

     
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    Paper Rose    July 7, 2012   SE Michigan

    This website is a privilege, not a right. Mr. Bee can ban anyone he wants to ban. The other website is not his domain, but this one is.

     
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    Bellanouva    July 19, 2013   Vancouver

    Im really very confused- I keep hearing conflicting information from everyone- so were members banned because they participated and were snarky

    or were these members banned because they participated in order to get to see the other snarky boards on that site?- what is there a post count you have to have on that other site in order to get to the really bad boards? Why would you want to go there anyways?

    I guess the truth is somewhere in between?

     
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    finderskeeperss    November 5, 2011   Virginia Beach

    I don't think they would have been banned for nothing.  They were disrespectful to the board and other members.

     
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    missredvelvet    May 14, 2011  


    Dear WB Community:

    We are “the banned” – those posters you seem to think are mean, evil, conniving trolls who live in a real life version of “Mean Girls” because we must have no lives of our own. Many of you have said quite snarky things about us, and it might surprise you to know who we are.



    We’re sure you’ll be surprised to see some of the names listed below, as they are probably posters each of you has thanked for advice in the past, or have cited as a voice of reason within some thread. Nowhere in the WB TOS does it bar you from belonging to any other websites, and we all read the “amnesty” to mean that we could not be snarky on WB.com, which, as you’ll see from our user names, we never were.

    We are the “snarky board girls”:


    futuremrsthomas

    divergirl
    deliciousappleblue
    lacrossebride
    mncrk09
    joeswifey
    Miss Steinbeck
    cupcakesprinkles
    Nexus-6
    enoh102
    GabrielleElise1981
    arenyth
    dance
    Kittyachi
    ejs4y8


    and several other well-respected bees who would like to remain anonymous.

    When there is drama in the future (which there will be), you’ll realize that the drama here wasn’t caused by us in the first place. Feel free to check any of our posting histories, if you can.

    Happy wedding planning and good luck.




    xoxo

    the "snarky" girls

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    @Mrs.KMM: How sad! I saw that ejs4y8 was gone too...sigh** 

     
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    Mrs. Meowerson    May 12, 2012  

    this is so weird....this whole other site was created just to make fun of ppl on wedding bee?  oh my, cruel junior high flashbacks emerging....

    did you have to get some kind of insider club "invite" to participate?  so i can assume that if we weren't invited, we were probably being mocked on the other site?

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    @Mrs. Meowerson: Curiousity is my downfall and I so want to see what is on the other site but am now afraid to make an account or I might get banned here (even if I don't particiate there).

     
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    Bellanouva    July 19, 2013   Vancouver

    @missredvelvet: what? GabrielleElise1981- Im kinda shocked right now! I cant believe she was  banned :( I really hope this is a mistake and not done because she was curious!

     
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    smith2be    May 7, 2011  

    Maybe I missed this but how do you know they posted there?

     
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    MandaMack    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    @missredvelvet: I love you all...if you guys are active on any (not just the "evil" site) PM me so I can join that site...this effing sucks.

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    I want to see whats going on there too! Not to particiate there, just to see what its all about! 

     
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    soccerball      

    I apologize if I don't understand this fully, but can't the banned members just create a new username with a different email address?

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    @soccerball: No I think they can match the IP address the their banned account...not sure tho

     
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    missfireslayer    September 24, 2010   Northern Colorado

    lezlers :(

     
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    Bellanouva    July 19, 2013   Vancouver

    Mr. Bee just posted on the other thread that each one of the members on that other site did the following

    Members of the snarky board have:

    • Coordinated snark and troll attacks on Weddingbee members.
    • Planned pre-meetup meetups to coordinate making fun of Weddingbee members at meetups

    http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/follow-up-on-one-time-amnesty/page/3

    Im still really surprised and unsure about all this tho.

     
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