(Closed) Phew, just need to vent! FI-related…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry he doesn’t want you to see him.  Maybe he doesn’t want yo to see how puffy he looks with his swollen cheeks?  Plus he might be conked out on painkillers at the moment.  I’m sure he will want to see you soon.

Post # 4
Member
4466 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Eh, don’t sweat it.  My FI is exactly like this.  When he’s sick/in pain, he’s absolutely miserable and just wants to wallow in his misery alone.  I’ve learned my lesson and keep my distance.  Believe me, it’s better than having him be rude and standoffish.

Guys are a lot different when it comes to this kind of stuff.  When I am sick/injured, I love to have people around to keep me company!

Post # 5
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2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Bummer – maybe he just doesn’t want you to see him in all his chipmunk-cheeked glory?

Or, you could create a wisdom-teeth care package (lots of liquified foods, pain pills and movies) and surprise him at his parents house anyway. My theory is that he’s going to have to get accustomed to you taking care of him when he’s not feeling well (and not looking the greatest either!).

Good luck!

Post # 6
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5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Hey, my sister had hers out early yesterday, too! Haha.

Give him a couple days to relax and heal up. He’ll be dying to see you in no time!

Post # 8
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would send him lots of popsicles and liquids but no straws!  Straws are bad for wisdom teeth removal!

Post # 9
Member
2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

He probably doesn’t want you to see him in his weakened chipmunk state lest you get in some hilarious photo opportunities Wink. Some people are like cats this way…they get injured and they go off to hide and heal on their own.

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