(Closed) Picking a "Second Wedding" Wedding Date

posted 5 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

When you have pressures like that around you, then I’d say just do it! Our date isn’t ideal because it turns out my OH will still be undergoing chemo. But his illness is one of the reasons we’re not going to move it.

Post # 4
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1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I completely agree with you, it’s over between them, who cares? It’s not like you go around thinking oh this was my one year anniversary with so and so (Well idk for marriage, but dating no). I guess if it was a recent divorce, maybe, but if it has been a while you move on. So no reason for it to be weird to have it in the same month! Same day, maybe a bit out of superstition lol same month, no! 

 

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Go for August and bear in mind that in a few years he won’t remember his other anniversary date.  I am sure worse things happened in history on your wedding date but you don’t let those things bother you.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@minipenguin:  +1 this.

Especially when the health of a close family member is a factor, don’t worry! The month won’t be ‘unlucky’ if it was the same day, you might be pushing it, but definitely don’t shy away from August for that reason :] good luck! 

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