Post # 1
I have been very blonde for my entire life. It’s my natural color. I recently dyed my hair dark and I LOVE IT!! It brings out my features so much. My eyes look ice blue and my skin looks better. I have never felt more confident in my life. However I have always heard you should look “how you normally look” for your wedding. Also, my SO(soon to be FI… I found a receipt for the ring) has hinted that he misses the blonde.
What do you think I should do for my wedding?
Post # 3
Not gonna lie I love the blonde!! Do whatever makes you feel the most gorgeous, they’re both good looks, but if I had to choose I’d go with the blonde.
Post # 5
I like the brunette better, but whatever floats your boat.
Post # 6
You actually look great with both. I think I prefer you blonde though!
Post # 7
You should add a poll. You look gorgeous as a blonde! I’ve always been envious of girls who could look good that blonde though so my vote is definitely for blonde. 🙂
Post # 8
I agree you should do what makes you feel best! I personally think the blonde really suits you though!
Post # 9
Definitely add a poll 🙂
I like both as well, but I do personally like the idea of natural hair for weddings (I *love* dying mine for fun, but I kept it natural and let it grow for the wedding, and I am very happy I did). So I’d say go blonde 🙂
Post # 11
What about lightening up the brunette by adding highlights?
Or maybe go back to blonde, but darken it with lolights? That’s probably the best option.
Post # 12
I personally like the blonde. But I think you should have your hair be the color you think it will be the rest of your life. If soon to be FI likes your hair better blonde, are you more likely to change it back and keep it blonde?
Post # 13
I agree that you should add a poll!
To answer your question, though, I think you wear both hair colors well … But I think the brown hair does somehow make your skin glow in a very healthy (pretty!) way. You could always do what some of the other girls mentioned and lighten it up a bit with highlights if you wanted something slightly closer to your natural color.
I’m not planning to go back to my natural hair color for my wedding. I’ve been dying my hair black for almost 7 years (wow, that’s a long time!) … My fiance hasn’t even seen my natural hair color (with the exception of pictures), which is a very light brown/ash blonde. I feel so much more attractive and confident with dark hair (not sure why), and it kind of sounds like you might feel that way about yourself as a brunette as well. If that’s the case, I would keep the brown (without any highlights).
Post # 14
Thanks for all the feedback guys. Haven’t decided yet but this is definitely helping. I do feel more confident as a brunette but it could just be because its something different. Also because it feels mysterious or something!! Being blonde your whole life doesn’t tend to come with a lot of mystery… people just tend to think you are a good time.
But I will probably end up going back to blonde for the wedding after reading the comments. Soon to be FI seems to prefer it so I would probably go back to it eventually anyway.
Post # 15
i think you can find a happy medium. the blonde is super cool and gorg but doesn’t look natural. low lights in the blond (or blond highlights over the brown would actually be my first choice) would look stunning and natural and give you the best of both worlds. that’s what i’m doing for my wedding 🙂