Piercing ''down there'' , any advice? (TMI)

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Its more common than yout hink, alot of girls have it.., i could never but ive heard that it does amazing thigs for your sex life…

i had a friend in high school who got it done in grade 9 (Which should be illegal, she was 14, and having some random guy peirce her girly bits!) anywho, she walked funny for a few days afterwards but then could t stop talking about how amazing it was and how it was the best thing she ever did… 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@deconbee:  I know nothing about it, except that I can’t fathom a needle anywhere near my vagina, least of all my clitoris.

I have no idea what it would do for somebody’s sex life, and I don’t get how it would enhance the experiece.

My question is, how did you stumble across the idea to do this? There is obviously nothing wrong with doing what you wish to your own body, I’m just curious what sparked the idea in your mind?

Post # 7
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Helper bee

my friend did it and said it didn’t hurt at all.  she loves it.  i don’t ask for many details past that. lol. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@deconbee:  I have never done it but I have talked to a few who have.  After a while things go numb due to the sensitivity goes away your body gets used to it that after a while it is actually harder to climax.  

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

@deconbee:  I had mine pierced when I was 19 (I’m 26 now) and I still have it. The procedure was quick, not too painful as my piercer used a gel to numb the skin before hand. I found the healing process fairly straight forwards, I’d had multiple other body piercings before this and I will say this was the second easiest one to deal with apart from my tongue. Both piercings are in an area of very soft tissue with good bloody supply so they heal much faster than other areas. 

There was some discomfort for probably a couple of days, and then I quickly forgot about it. cleaning is easy too for the healing period, just a quarter tea spoon of salt to 1 cup boiled and cooled water, soak the piercing in a shot glass and then use a q tip to clean around the bar. 

I think  I first ‘tried it out’ 3 or 4 weeks after I got it done and we were very gentle and had no issues. It’s pretty exciting at first but don’t expect miricals, it does make some difference, but to me it wasn’t massive, just a new type of sensation. And all those rumours about orgasiming walking up stairs are not true lol. 

Its a a cool piercing to have, its something different and does change some of the feelings you have. Over all it’s such an easy piercing to have and I really love mine. 

Let me know if you have any specific questions at all, I’m happy to answer them 🙂

Post # 10
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Busy bee

It’s not a risk I’d be willing to take, as it can lead to a loss of sensitivity. I’m a woman who can reach orgasm without external clitoral stimulation, and even then it isn’t worth the risk to me. If you are a woman who needs clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, there’s no way I recommend considering putting your sexual gratification at risk. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

@Splodge2003: not op but I’m curious.  how did you find the person to do the piercing? Did you just walk up to a shop. & ask or was it someone you knew maybe got other piercings by them or whatnot? I was interested in getting the same piercing but I think I’m much too shy.!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

@Bracelet00:  a lot of people worry about this, and while it has happened in very rare cases, think how many nerve endings are in that area of the body, and then remember the size of the needle is only 1.6-1.8mm in diameter. The risk is very very slight of causing any lasting damage. If it was that bad no one would have it done, or other piercings such as nipples and tongues.  

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

@atreyu547:  I used a piercer I had been too before, and also because she was female. If you don’t know of any one, research online for local places and ask for a female if this makes you more comfortable. 

Make sure they only use disposable needles and the correct type if jewelery. Go in and ask lots of questions, check out the studio and make sure it’s clean and they have proper certificates etc. ask questions about how the recommend to look after piercings and yet a feel if you are comfortable with them. They should be able to show you their equipment, and have a good knowledge and understanding. Everything should be sterilised in an autoclave machine before any piercing procedure or disposable items should be new and wrapped. 

If you find somewhere like this you will be fine, but just use google and read reviews on local places to see where others are going, then check them out yourself to make sure

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I had a vertical hood piercing for several years, took it out a couple of years back though. It’s fun, but trust me, it’s not the amazing ‘OMG, I orgasm driving to work!’ thing that people say it is. Does it provide additional stimulation? Yes. The only thing I didn’t like about it was that if you have a guy who has a lot of stamina and you’re not into the slow and gentle thing, you can get some painful bruising. 

I didn’t lose any sensation in the area, and it healed very quickly. Oddly enough, it was less painful than getting my nipples pierced. I have never experienced difficulty climaxing, either with or without it.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

@deconbee:  swimming is absolutely fine once it’s healed, just like ear piercings. Don’t swim before it’s healed to stop getting any infections though.

ive never taken mine out since I got it except to change the jewellery, but I imagin ether hole will shrink pretty quickly. My tongue piercing I took out after three years and I couldn’t get it back in after two days. Piercings in soft tissues area tend to close very fast, but just like ears some people can still get jewellery back in after months and sometimes years, although for this area I probably wouldn’t recommend leaving jewellery out longer than a day

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