Pity party, table for one…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@SouthernGirl:  Sorry you’re going throug this. I didn’t expect any help from my BM. My MOH did a little bit, but not a huge amount. All my DIY projects were done by me and my parents helped a little. It is tough, but your mom is right. It will all work out.

You have 8 months until your wedding, so you don’t need to be working on so much right now. The BM dresses can wait a few months yet, and I bet if you wait until after your BM’s wedding in October you will get more from her if you ask.

In the meantime this might be a good chance for your to look at BM A’s relationship with you. If she is putting drinking and going out before her friendship with you, do you doubt her responsibilities the day of? has she been difficult or do you foresee her being difficult to deal with leading up to the wedding? Before getting too involved, I would figure that much out.

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