(Closed) Planning a no-alcohol/no-peenie-headwear bachelorette party

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

My b-party was kind of like this. I, too, squirm a lot. lol. So we just went out to dinner then back to my friend’s house. She had made chocolate fondue and the girls paid for a massage therapist to come and give 25 minutes massages. It was heavenly. And I ate a lot of chocolate. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

when i think of slumber parties i think of junk food and cute pjs!

you could get some ice cream and her fav junk food and/or takeout and have everybody wear some cute pjs, maybe even in her wedding colors with hers being white.

victoris secret has CUTE lounge wear and pj sets! omg they have the CUTEST bride zip up white cotton jacket that you could get her and then some cute white pj pants. the easiest way to find the jacket is type in bridal in their search at the top of the homepage and then itll be towards the bottom under the lingerie. i personally cant wait to get it soon!

make her wear the bacheloretter crown and sash and decorate the house or living room. party city has bachelorette themed decorations. the lingerie thing sounds cute, as long as people dont bring toys, she might faint!

yall can make non-alcoholic cocktails and serve them in martini glasses and everyone, even the younger girls and older ladies will enjoy it!

watch some bride/love themed movies, like bride wars and the notebook!

hope this helps some!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Oakland Manor

I think Avocado had a similar bachelorette party. You could play fun grade school games like light as a feather stiff as a board and such ๐Ÿ™‚ My sister played a bunch of board games at hers – we loved Apples to Apples!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I didn’t want a bar hopping party, which is usually the type of party I’ve attended for previous friends…instead, I wanted something low key, relaxing, and casual. Originally the girls were thinking a spa day and then a slumber party idea, to have maybe a couple of drinks, watch movies, chit chat, and spend sometime laughing. Now though, the Mr. suggested we have a joint weekend get together and we’re heading down south for a nice weekend of fishing and spending time with close friends.

I think movies would be great, cute games are a fun way to learn a few things you didn’t know, maybe some karaoke would be fun, and if it’s affordable…massages, manis/pedis are great as well!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Westwind YWCA camp

I went to a bachelorette party once where we watched a bunch of movies like Muriel’s Wedding.  I think there was a dinner party involved, too…

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

For a bridal shower/bachelorette party I helped plan, we bought this "pin the bow-tie on the bachelor" game, where, obviously, it’s this poster of a half-naked guy in a very seductive pose, and you blindfold people as they tape on little bow ties. We scanned a pic of the groom-to-be making a kissy face, and stuck it on the poster’s face, which everyone thought was hilarious.  Not sure if this would be too crude for your friend, but we had fun!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

we just did a "tame" party for a friend at church.  We went out to dinner.  Came back to the house and divided into teams and made toilet paper lingeri. It was hilarious! Then we had girl talk and played a few board games.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

One of my bridesmaids is my little sister. So, we had a tame bachelorette so that she could be included. We started out at a pottery painting place. I thought it was going to be lame, but it turned out to be a blast. I have the artistic abilities of a Kindergartener so there was a lot of laughs! Then we went to a Hibachi restaurant. FUN. Then later that night we went back to my friend/bridesmaid’s and had desserts and wine (optional… not stressed). It was so great to have a low-key time with my girls.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2009

I like the spa idea, you could do a spa-night sleep over, you’d get a lot of cute pictures with facemasks and cucumbers.

Maybe hire a personal chef for a night to do a cooking class too? (if shes into cooking) Or a psychic? or any sort of instructor that appeals to her tastes

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I just got back from my bachelorette party, which was this weekend.  I am not a squeamish person, BUT my sister is my maid of honor and I was really stressed out about having that kind of talk around her.  My friends knew this and really toned it down, which was great.  Here’s something that you could do to make it extra fun and still keep it PG rated.  My friends did the questions thing, but they videotaped my fiance answering the questions and then we played the tape during the party.  It was a total surprise to me, and really, really fun.  So this way the focus isn’t really on the dirty questions, but more on laughing at the differences and watching us both think hard about the answers.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Slumber party, yay! No penis cake if it will make her squirm. Sorry, but I do NOT believe that you should be making the bride feel uncomfortable when she’s stressed already. Help her unwind, yes (I love the idea of massages! You could even give each other massages, try out hairstyles, paint each others’ nails, etc.) but please don’t intentionally make her squirm!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@mechiebaby: That’s tamer than "Pin the Dick on the Crotch", at least!

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