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    HummusGal    October 6, 2012   Michigan

    October 2012 brides!  Hi!

    I'm sure we're all at different stages of the planning process... depending on how long you've been engaged, but as we approach that 8 month mark, I thought I'd see how far you've come and where you're headed to next in the 'ol checklist!

    Me?

    Well... We've booked our church, the reception venue, a caterer, our photographer, the DJ, and a photobooth.  I found my wedding dress.  We have bridesmaids dresses selected and tux fittings underway.  I feel like I'm in good shape, but we've been planning slowly since June 2011.  Next up??  Make our wedding website, decide on STD's, figuring out flowers/decorations and dessert!

    What about YOU?!?  I'd love to hear about your progress so far!!

     
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    mrsjjohnson2b    October 2012  

    Well, I think I'm way behind.  

    So far I've:

    Booked ceremony and reception venue ( same location)

    Said Yes to the dress and reception dress

    Spoke with a caterer but haven't done a tasting yet with them

    Pick my colors

    FI picked a DJ that I'm not crazy about

    Booked rooms for OOT guest

    Picked flower girl dresses and BM dresses but haven't ordered yet

     

    Things I plan on doing this week:

    Decide on a rental company for chairs, tables and tent

    Contact some photographers

    Contact some saxophone players

    Start designing wed page

    Decide on Save the Dates

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    pineapplelove    October 6, 2012  

    Well, I've only been engaged about a week, but I feel like I'm catching up on planning pretty fast!

    - Booked ceremony and reception venue (same place), including catering

    - Bought dress

    - Picked out dresses for the wedding party, not purchased yet

    - Picked out flowers, not purchased yet

    - Also picked out invitations, ordering this weekend

    - Finalized guest list

    Next on the list is to confirm the officiant and book the photographer.

     
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    macshap    October 6, 2012   GA/TN

    I've been engaged since June as well and here's where I am:

    Booked ceremony and reception venue ( same location)

    Bought and received dress

    Booked caterer, DJ, and florist

    Blocked rooms for OOT guest

    Made wedding website

    Sent save the dates

    Taken engagement photos

    decided on rental company for chairs and linens (though they don't know it yet)

    Confirmed officiants

     

    Currently on my to-do list:

    Book a photographer

    Decide on music genre for ceremony and book a musician

    Pick colors and bridesmaids dresses

    Meet with florist and possible day-of coordinators

     

     
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    tonights    October 27, 2012   Boston, MA

    I've been engaged since July, but we scrapped our venue and started over at Thanksgiving. I have: 

     

    -Venue

    -Caterer

    -Dress

    -Photographer

    -Makeup artist

    -Colors

    -Room blocks

    -Rehearsal dinner

    -Guest list

     

    I had felt like I was wya behind, but this looks like a pretty respectable list! Next we'll be moving on to: 

    -Band

    -Save the Dates!!! 

    -Website

    -Bridesmaid gowns

    -Groom's attire

     
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    cardnasac    October 20, 2012   Albuquerque, NM

    You are on the ball and I thought I was ahead of the game.

    We booked the venue

    I bought my dress and it is being tailor right now (still need recep dress)

    We got 2 out of the 5 bridesmaid dress

    I bought FI ring

    We have DJ

    FI is looking for an officiant now

    Refinished our wedding website which was the OOT save the dates

    Finalized the OOT guestlist

    Picked colors

    Bought wedding favors

    Bought the BM gift

    Bought the OOT ladies guest favors

    Picked our first dance song

    In my mind, I started the invites, lol

     

     

     
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    MsBrewer    October 1, 2011   Milwaukee, WI

    Just wanted to say congrats to everyone! :-) I was an October bride, and it was beautiful! Congrats again and happy planning!

     
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    HummusGal    October 6, 2012   Michigan

    @mrsjjohnson2b:  You don't sound behind to me!!  Making great progress by the looks of it :)  I hope your DJ works out, it's nice that your FH is involved in helping to plan at least!  And a saxophone!?  That'll be awesome!

    @pineapplelove:  Holy crap girl, only a week and you're that far along already??  You are a wedding planning whiz... congrats and way to go!

    @macshap:  Yay, we're engagement month AND wedding date twins! Good luck with the rest of planning, you're owning it so far!

    @tonights:  You are totally NOT behind... hope this thread helps you see that you're in really good shape!  AND you've even started over, so that says something!

    @cardnasac:  You have a TON done!!  I think finalizing the guest list is one of the hardest things to do!  You even have favors and gifts in hand, impressive!

    @MsBrewer:  Awwww, thanks lady!!  Did you take a honeymoon?  If so, where?

     
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    cardnasac    October 20, 2012   Albuquerque, NM

    @HummusGal:  Lol, thanks. I am a planner by nature and I really wasn't planning on buying most of the stuff I found but it was to good of a deal to pass up, lol. But our OOT guest list was the easiest. We pretty much sent everyone OOT a save the date. If they are willing to cough up the $$$$ to fly in for our wedding then come on, lol. We are still working on the local guest list but we really won't finalized until April or so.

     
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    lizzy105    October 5, 2012   Quincy, MA

    Ahh let's see...I love checking things off my list! This is what we have done so far:

    -Ceremony venue

    -Reception venue (including food and bar)

    -Guest list

    -Engagement photos (used them on the Save the Dates!)

    -Band (They are amazingggg and this is the most important part for us)

    -Dress- bought it at Running of the Brides!

    -Found my shoes but haven't purchased them yet...waiting for a sale..or a miracle.

    -Bridesmaids dresses and jewelry

    -Rehearsal Dinner venue

    -Save the dates are sent with room block

    -Wedding website

    -Hair and makeup artist

    -Cake

    We still need:

    -Invitations (we have an appointment next saturday!)

    -Photographer- pretty sure we're signing the contract this weekend but I can't check it off my list until it's official ;)

    -Flowers- I already know I wany hydrangeas and we have a florist so we just have to sit down to get that done

    -wedding rings- picked them out but havent purchased yet

    Happy planning, everyone!!!

     
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    MissNapaBride    October 14, 2012  

    I had most things planned within the month of getting engaged!! But I'm a planner!

    So far I have:

    Dress, Bridesmaids dresses, Photog, Venue, Cake, Caterers, Save the dates ordered and on the way, Violinist, DJ, Working on accessories, Planner, Officiant, Florist, MIL booked the shower site, booked hotel room for night of.

    I have to finish some things I have been working on but not done with: limos, ceremony script, vows, have to book honeymoon, order rings. Other stuff too I have 112 things on my knot checklist!!

     

     
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    HummusGal    October 6, 2012   Michigan

    @lizzy105:  You are a machine girl!!  Love seeing all of your progress, makes me want to get back at it :)  My MO has been TONS of research, mixed with spurts of productivity... gotta keep that productivity going and follow through on some of that research!  So many options though... haha

    @MissNapaBride:  Great work Napa!!  Good for you, jumping right on it the second you scored the ring!  Such an exciting time... :)  That knot checklist is pretty helpful, but holy overwhelming sometimes, so many little things to think about.

    Best of luck ladies, you're all doing GREAT!!!

     

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