Play dates and small house

posted 3 years ago in Parenting
Post # 3
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2690 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Don’t feel bad… at least you have your own house…look at it that way and you will feel better BUT I do empathaize. 

I am the opposite.  I have a bigger house than my mom friends so we usually do the playdates here at my house.  I  have more outdoor space too so the kids have more room to run around and play where as my firends don’t have that or have very tiny spaces.  I feel very blessed.  It made me more appreciative because I always thought my house to be small (just 1600sf or so).  But 4 of my mom friends won’t even host the playdates because their houses are too small… so it’s usually myself and one other mom who hosts at our houses.

Post # 4
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6747 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

We live in a townhouse, much smaller than that of most of our friends.  I also know that we make 2X as much as many of our friends.  The size of your house doesn’t mean anything.

Post # 5
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759 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Be proud of what you have and if anyone judges, they are not a good friend. I had a much larger house than my playgroup Moms but I would never, ever judge anyone for it. I admired the choices that they made – all of them were stay at home moms except me and I truly respected the sacrifices that they made to be able to do so and the benefits they had that I didn’t because I choose to work. I wish for all moms that we would stop with the keeping up with the Joneses’ anxiety and just support and applaud each other. Maybe you can be an example of that within your friends! Best wishes!

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