Please advice, apparently my FI wants to go to the movies with other girls

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@FutureA:  He’s dating other women. Dump him.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Ehhh that’s shady.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@FutureA:  Being evasive and shady about it are major red flags!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I hate to say this but… LEAVE HIM.

I would be willing to bet money that he is a cheater.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@FutureA:  First off…

1) Why weren’t YOU invited? If it were a “guys only” night, then why are girls invited?

2) And WHY on Earth is his friend (singular) inviting girls (plural)?

As him this…or better yet, don’t waste your time with a guy like this. BE that woman that stands up to him and walks….

Post # 9
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Busy bee

Keep the ring. Lose the man.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I really really hate to say this, but if it was a genuine “mistake”, he wouldn’t have been trying to stop you from seeing his phone. He is acting dishonestly, and I would be willing to bet that if you did a little digging you would find out it goes further. I think you should consider leaving him. I’m so sorry

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@TheLawrenceBride:  +1

The fact that he didn’t want you to see his phone is the most suspicious part. If he had nothing to hide, then he would just let you see it, and his explanation would far more convincing.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Give him the boot!  You deserve better.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I’m not necessarily sold that going to the movies with girls is the problem (what if they’re mutual friends? Coworkers? etc) but the fact that he’s acting sketchbag about telling you is definitely a huge problem.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

@FutureA:  Youŕe not overreacting. Sounds like a jerk. 

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