(Closed) Please delete if possible

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I felt exactly the same way before my wedding, although I had mostly good examples.  I was 41 and VERY independent.  Still am!  It helped me a lot that DH and lived together for over a year before getting engaged.

Since you didn’t have the greatest example growing up, look to those around you for better examples.  Read books, ask older people for advice.  At the end of the day, if you remember to respect and support each other, you’ll be OK.  Law school?  Of course you are only going to hear about divorce.  Happily married people don’t have that much need for attorneys.

Marriage is hard, but it’s not impossible.  And a good marriage can make the bad things in life a lot less difficult to bear.

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