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posted 2 years ago in Flowers
  • poll: Are black roses inappropriate for a wedding centerpiece?
    Yes - they should not be used : (23 votes)
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    No - they are fine : (21 votes)
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    Other - I will share :-) : (3 votes)
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    EvaBostonTerrier    July 3, 2010  

    So this was my first trial at centerpieces.  Our colors are black and white with (a few) green accents.  I was thinking of having 3 mis-match vases per table with tea lights all around.  I used artificial flowers (roses) for practice, but originally planned on using real flowers - there aren't black flowers in nature though and they would have to be set up shortly before the reception (which may be difficult to do).  As of right now (3 hours) I haven't had any problems with the artificial flower color bleeding into the water but I will check them tomorrow morning.

    Here are the issues I have identified thus far:  

    • Flowers were cut too high
    • More marbles needed at the bottom
    • Perhaps larger floating candles
    • Black may be too morbid/ gothic 
    • Perhaps use white ribbon with black flowers and visa versa
    • Perhaps wider ribbon for larger vases

    Any Advise??  Which of the above issues actually should be changed?

    Please critique my first centerpiece trial! :  wedding flowers centerpiece black white Flowers 022

    Please critique my first centerpiece trial! :  wedding flowers centerpiece black white Flowers 027

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    Wow I love them!

    I don't think black roses are "gothy" at all - I think they are elegant and match your colours!

    I prefer the centerpieces without the ribbon I think they look cleaner!

    Good Job!

     
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    Amaryllis    July 2, 2011  

    I love the one with the white flower and black ribbon, though. I think a cluster of those would be beautiful and still keep in the black/white theme. I don't think the black ones are morbid per se, but I don't think they are as attractive as the white flower ones.

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I like them without the ribbon as well, but perhaps try them with a ribbon that has both patterns, an argyle would be cool, a damask, polka dot, something like that?

     
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    Selene221    October 31, 2012  

    They look elegant. If you love them, that's all that matters. I prefer them without any ribbon.

     
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    rachelss    August 22, 2010   Fort Collins, CO

    I love submerged orchids (white and green), but I'm not sure about the roses.

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    Black is fine!  I agree with Creb about the ribbon idea.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    I think you identified what I was going to point out. Practice makes perfect! I would definitly try to find a ribbon with a pattern you like to break it up a little. = )

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    Also, what color are your table linens going to be? If the linens will be white then the black may not look bad. If they linens are black then I think black roses wouldn't show up too well and it would be hard to identify what they are.

     
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    MyraG    August 14, 2010  

    I like the idea, I'm not fond of the black flowers though. Perhaps greeen cymbidium orchids as your accent.

    Please critique my first centerpiece trial! :  wedding flowers centerpiece black white HWE 168083

     

     
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    mssocks    October 10, 2010  

    I think they're fabulous!  I agree with a lot of your points, but I do think that one ribbon color will be fine for all of the vases, and white might be fantastic for it!

    Good luck and great job, they're beautiful!

     

     
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    shushu1208    June 18, 2011  

    They look great!  I think the black flowers look great and are a stunning contrast to the white flowers!  The only thing for me is if you were to use black flowers, with those vases maybe change up the ribbon color?  That way you can have some contrast there as well.  Maybe som pattern as was suggested above or green?  Good luck!

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    they're beautiful!

    that's exactly the style i want to do for my centerpieces eventually just with lillies instead of roses.

     
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    EvaBostonTerrier    July 3, 2010  

    Thanks everyone for your input!

     

    @crebre - thanks so much for the idea of using some type of patterned ribbon!

    @caszos - the linens will be white.  I was worried about all white flowers blending in too much.

    @myrag - thank you for the example of the orchids.  That may be a good option is I decide not to use black (or opt for real flowers!)

     Edit: I meant to add - I really am not good at taking pictures and the black flowers don't appear as dark in person (if that makes sense).  It's easier to make out that they are flowers in person.

     
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    aloweha      

    Just a few thoughts, take 'em or leave 'em :)

    what if you lost the stems and flipped the roses (rose heads) upside down submerged? So they were directly underneath the floating candle?

    Or somehow could make the rose head "sit" on the bed of marbles submerged?

    I think the water level could be a bit lower so that it hit where the vase is narrowest at the top.

    Maybe tie the ribbon around the votive holders instead of the vases?

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    ....they DO look a little morbid :(

    which makes me sad to say, because I want to say, "If you love them, use them!"

    What color are your linens? I'm afraid too much black will be a little overwhelming.

     
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    FutureMrs.Harless    July 25, 2010   Northeast TN

    I loved the mismatched vases... I actually am using 3 mismatched vases on each table i am doing as well..

    I picked other ... I dont think they are innapropraite... What kind of linens are you using? i do feel the centerpieces are a little blah though ...

    I personally dont like the ribbon at all ... sorry

    I also feel the stems are ruining it... perhaps it is just bc like you said they are not short enough.

     
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    Johnitta    May 15, 2010   Tallahassee/Panama City, Fla

    Great job! I like the varying heights of the vases. I don't think the black roses look gothic. The only suggestion I would have is to look at removing the ribbon because it takes away from the roses. I think it would still look elegant without the ribbon. It's a nice idea and I've seen it in a couple places.

     
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    EvaBostonTerrier    July 3, 2010  

    I played around with them a little more this morning (I have to go to work though!!)  I will try to post some new pics tonight.

     

    Anyways....

    • Getting rid of the stems and having the flowers sit on the marbles seems to look better
    • IF I decide to use the black roses, I would only use 1 per table (and 2 white roses).  The tablecloth is white and the napkins are black.  I am worried that all white flowers may blend in with the table too much.  Thought?!?!
    • The water will be significantly lower (in order to putting the floating candle on top, I had to put the water high yesterday because the flowers were cut too high)
    • The ribbon will not be as is (not sure if I will try something different - different color/pattern/location - or just not use at all)

    I'm still not sure if I want to use real or artificial flowers.  If I were to use real flowers, they would all be white.  


    Thanks everyone for your suggestions.

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I don't think they'll blend too much and you're welcome for the patterned ribbon suggestion I think the color scheme is really mod and cool and a bit unexpected (which is always fun in the wedding world)

     
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    LYBYANA    November 11, 2011   MONTREAL

    JUST AS A LITTLE SUGGESTION. MY SISTER HAD AN ALL CANDLE CENTER PIECE WITH ABOUT 8 TO 10 DIFFERENT WHITE CANDLES ON SQUARE MIRRORS. THE IDEA WAS GREAT AND IT LOOKED BEAUTIFUL, ALL UNTIL THE TEA CANDLES HAD NO MORE WAX AND BLEW OUT AND SOME CANDLES WERE NOT BURNING RIGHT AND WE HAD TO BLOW THEM OUT. SHE LOST A LOT OF THE "MOOD " THAT SHE WAS GOING FOR BECAUSE THE CANDLES DIDN'T LAST ALL OF THE SUPPER TIME... TO ALL YOU OUT THERE, IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON USING CANDLES PLEASE GO OUT AND SPEND THE LITTLE EXTRA ON LONG LASTING CANDLES...

     

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    That is great you are using it on white table linens.  I think the black will really "pop" against that.

    I agree with others that for some reason the top of the flower, the water line, the ribbon, and the candle are all at about the same level.  Maybe you can adjust this a little bit?  I like the ribbon, but I like the first picture better without it because it makes the candle stand out more. 

    What about using black or dark river rock on the bottom? 

     
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    LacyLust    May 21, 2011   Ohio

    I'd love to see updated pictures! I personally think the black looks awesome. I would switch up the black rose with a different color ribbon. But I love It. I say stick with it. I like the suggestions too about laying the rose on the rocks without the stem.

     

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