Weddingbee boards

My FI gets so frustrated with me over how indecisive I can be at times. My problem is I have several visions and creative ideas and cannot choose which I like best. When I do make a decision I tend to regret it and wish I had done/picked something else instead. I like to have all my options in front of me and at times this is very impossible.

Right now most of this revolves around my dress. I currently have two dresses and like two others. The first one is an Amsale, I enjoy it very much, but it's ivory. Nothing against ivory, but I've decided I really prefer white which I would have never realized if I hadn't bought this dress. The second dress is a custom made dress, I thought I couldn't go wrong here. I like it, but it's not quite me. True, I picked the design and she did amazing, but I am disappointed because it doesn't look like I had hoped it would on me. When I got it I told my FI that I think I love it my FI then said "Love it enough you're going to sell it and get another one?"

Now I'm looking at another Amsale and a Watters. The Amsale Bijou and Watters Lasara to be exact. Both have different feels to them, but I love both and getting them together in the same place to compare has been a no go.

My wedding color/theme is all white. We are going to try to have an outdoor ceremony (weather depending) otherwise it will be in the lobby of our reception site. I'll include pictures of the dresses and the reception site. I could really use some advice on this. I feel horrible about looking for another dress, but I just don't feel right in the other two.

Lol, that was my other problem with it! We have a four year old and I know at some point I would lean over and I don't want to fall out. My FI, however, didn't seem to think that was a big deal. Guys...

Peronsally the 4th one is my favorite, but I like the second one more on you, out of the ones you have pictures of yourself in, but the 4th is my fav!

Number 2 would really match with your venue in an amazing way. Plus it looks fantastic on you. I'm really sorry that you don't seem to be comfortable in it.

If I have to pick from the last two, I admit to full on loving that Amsale dress. I've thought it looked great on normal brides. And I think it's very fashion forward. I have, however, never seen it in white. On Say Yes to the Dress Atlant, it's a coffee au lait sort of color. And it looks like that might be the same color it is in the model pic above. I'd need to see it in stark white before I am sure.

But if you won't consider number 2, the Amsale is my vote.

@paulajmc4: dress 3 is Amsale Bijou.

@2PeasinaPod: It's ok. That was a problem I had with it and it's all I looked at too when I had it on.

@Statutory Grape: I'm trying! It's like I have an addiction for pretty dresses.

@ddubzz: I'm trying to track them down. Which is hard because most likely I will have to travel to find them. I live in a small town with two dress shops that carry the same lines and a David's Bridal, that I've tried unsuccessfully to make an appt at twice just to try different styles on.

To everyone who likes dress 2: I'm trying to love it. I really am. I'm thinking of having the straps removed or lengthened because they pull the dress up in an uncomfortable way. I tried it on again today and stood there trying to decide.

Thank you to all who replied. My sisters and FI are so irritated with me.

I am obsessed with dress #3. I saw it (or something like it) on SYTTD, and fell in love. If I looked remotely good in drop waist gowns, and/or had known about it, I would have snatched it right up. Also, dress #4 is so gorgeous up close! Lovely from far away, but totally luscious. I love that detailing. I vote for 3 or 4!

I love the dress #1, if the neckline was higher it would be gorgeous! But for some reason I absolutely love dress #2!!

@bells: I've had the 1st one since March and really don't see myself wearing it. I don't want to bother with altering something I don't even feel like is in the running. I bought it on impluse and will probably donate it just to be rid of it. I just posted the picture to verify why I changed my mind (I thought if I didn't someone would ask to see it anyway).

@TealChocolate: I'm going to try it on either this weekend or next. I feel like that with the 1st one. I bought it just to say I had one. The 2nd... I don't know I like it, but don't love it. If I try these two on and neither does it for me then I'll stick with the 2nd because it does look good and it's paid for.

@Monster of the Bride: I know! A malfunction was my big concern. I know I need to love it and that's the problem. I don't like one and just like the other. There is no love and that's what everyone is having trouble understanding. My older sister eloped and no one was there to see her wedding, the other two are just in the dating stage. My FI is a typical guy and thinks that as long as it's a dress it should be ok.

@spaganya: Poll added!

Note to all: I'm trying to set up appointments to try the other two on.