(Closed) PLease Help

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2006

To answer your last question, no it doesn’t sound like you are on the same page.  Sometimes men, especially younger men, will “take a break” and “not be ready for commitment” when they are not able to commit to a particular person.  You said you were having bad arguments before your “break”, maybe you should take a longer break and see other people before commiting to one person.

Post # 4
Member
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think I would do some major soul searching to make sure that is what I want. I would definitely not be with someone that was so fearful of being with me, and you can’t always be walking on eggshells around him. He has to allow you your own faults, just as you have to allow him his. Communication and trust is what a relationship thrives on, and if the two of you have many problems I would suggest taking more time away from each other and really think about what should be the next course of action for the two of you. Some people are just not meant to be. Some are. But only time will tell.

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