Please help

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
Member
1283 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Zoey11:  Nope, nope nope. You are not wrong to start looking at your options. Maybe just do it quietly and not talk about it with her and ask her family members to not mention it to her? She sounds very insecure or attention grabby. 

Post # 3
Member
7910 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Zoey11: I was going to say “4 months gap is plenty of time between weddings”. And then I reread the post: all you are doing is *planning* your wedding, and your wedding is more than a year after hers!!

The girl is nuts. Ignore her, and carry on planning. Believe it or not, your fiance’s parents are capable of thinking about something other than her wedding.

p.s. congratulations, and welcome to the Hive!

Post # 5
Member
7730 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would continue planning but just not talk about it around her.

Post # 6
Member
9126 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

She is insane. Just smile, nod and carry on.

Post # 7
Member
45132 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Zoey11:  You are not wrong. She is acting very entitled.

Post # 8
Member
4601 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Zoey11:   Welcome!   Ignore her childish bid for the spotlight.   

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