- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
My fiance’s mom is longsince divorced & has been living with a man for a few years. When we first started dating we visited a few times.This boyfriend/old man of hers likes to drink a lot & i found myself more than a few times with him rubbing my leg and “flirting” with me – always while others were out of the room. It wouldnt have been so bad until his hand started reaching higher & higher until he was & the very top of my leg! I didnt want to cause a scene because remember, I was still trying to make a good impression & this was HER house.
Anyway, after not wanting to go back for a while, I finally told my fiance the reason. He was angry & said he would talk with them. I asked him not to – it would just aggravate things, but he did anyway….
I saw them a month or so later and a few times after that & things seemed better. He pretty much ignored me which was better than before. But the last time we visited he was drunk again & started shouting this and that & accusing us of saying these things about him. I had had enough by this time & told him what I thought about the whole sorry story & we left before him or my fiance came to blows.
We havent seen him since & the wedding is in just over a month. He is invited because of fiances mom. I am just scared it will turn into a fiasco or he might try to embarass us somehow. How do I handle this? What to do?