- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
My mother and I are not close. Never have been and in the past 2 years we have barely seen or spoken to each other. I am getting married in October and I do not know how to include my fiance’s mother in the wedding, as in the unity candle (i am open to other suggestions tho) but not my mother. I just do not feel that she is a part of my life in a way that she should be part of my wedding ceremony. I know this probably sounds terrible but when i think of her walking up there and lighting that taper, I envision a stranger lighting that candle. Please offer some advice. Thanks in advance!