(Closed) Please Help Bees!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
8354 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Honestly, they dated 5 to 7 years ago. I would still let her come over and see how it goes. If it doesn’t go well, you never have to have her over again, but it has been a very long time, so I would just go with it.

Post # 4
Member
1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I hear you, I wouldn’t want someone like that around my fi or better yet, in my home!  I do wonder if it would be interesting to still have this woman come and see how she is around your fi? If I were you I would have her over and annoy her with all wedding talk.

  No, but seriously, you shouldn’t have to put yourself in this situation, so since you spoke up about it, stick to your guns!

Post # 6
Member
762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do! Just the thought of having my fiance’s ex coming into my home (we’ve had the same sort of issues with her) makes my skin crawl and I will not allow it at any point (neither will he but you get my point). You have every right to be uncomfortable with it!

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