- 7 years ago
This is a long, complicated story sorry!
My FI and I have been dating for 3 years and engaged for 2.5. We met at work 5 years ago and a friend at work set us up. Well my FI’s best friend who also works at the same store recently left his wife and is staying with us while he gets back on his feet. He also had hernia repair surgery Monday. Well the store is a family run one, so everyone knows everyones business. A guy from my FI’s department’s wife Dawn and her friend want to come out and visit my FI’s friend we’ll call G. Dawn’s friend also happens to be an ex of my FI who has been trying to get his attention. She sends him myspace and facebook messages as well as emails, which he does not read. They dated like 5-7 years ago, and have had limited contact since. To add to this drama, G apparently had a crush/maybe kissed her or something (I don’t know the details, not my business) after my FI dated her. I went into work the other day and my FI goes “Guess what?! We’re having company Tuesday!” And he told me his ex is coming over. I said “oh no she isn ‘t.” “Yes she is.” “No she isn’t.” “Yes she is.” You get the idea. I confronted the guys wife about it and said I wasn’t comfortable with his ex in our house. She apologized and said she was sorry and that she forgot they dated. Well it turned into a huge thing because my FI thinks his ex can come over and Dawn saw how upset I was over everything and said she wasn’t going to come with his ex. I don’t mind that she’s an ex of his, I mind that she tries contacting him and she’s a notorious drama girl.
Am I being crazy? Do you think I’m over reacting? Should I just let her come over and deal?