Post # 1
I’m having 3 flowergirls(cousins)..This was not my choice. I was going to just have one flowergirl, but Future Mother-In-Law let me know she planned to ask two others. I am having problems picking the dress. Can you help me decide??? Two flowergirls will be 5 years old and one will be 7 years old. My bridesmaids are wearing long Tahiti(purplish shade of lavender) dresses. I was thinking of putting one of the girls in one dress and the other two in another, but the aunt didn’t like that idea. What do you think of having the two younger girls in the ivory dress and the older one in the colored dress? Or do you think all three in the same one? I also can’t decide between the dresses. Fiance likes the colored dress, and so do I. But I think the aunt likes the ivory one. I kind of don’t like them in an ivory dress when I’m in an ivory dress, for people who know what I am talking about;)
Choice 1: is an ivory dress with a Tahiti Sash..It has a tulle overskirt. By The Way, on the link it looks seethrough due to the ivory but its not(Its cute like a normal dress/you can see if you press a colored dress) and Tahiti is the 3rd box in(for the sash)
Choice 2: solid Tahiti dress with flowers on the side (Tahiti box is 2nd box in)
Can you please help me, I have to decide soon!
I keep going back and forth between the two! I am an indecisive person.
Post # 3
its your wedding so you should pick.
I’ve seen so many complaints on this forum about things other people have decided on for the wedding!!! Man up and tell her where to go!
i love the purple one, but they’re both pretty cute!
Post # 4
i second foxi. it’s your wedding. i kinda like the idea of having the two different dresses for the flowergirls. i say stick to your guns for the dresses, you’ve already accommodated them by adding two extra flower girls when you originally wanted one.
Post # 5
I love the look of the white dress with colored sash for the flowergirl…. it’s what we’re doing for our wedding! 🙂
Post # 6
I love the flower dress! Have you thought about having them all in the same dress, just in different shades?
Post # 7
^ Colors are Concord & Passion in the first pic, and Concord, Passion and African Violet in the second pic.
I also just picked a random tahiti gown for the BM’s
I saw in an earlier post that you were torn between light and dark purples, this would be a great compromise!
Post # 8
First off I love the first dress!
When I first looked at your post I just looked at the dresses and said no question the first dress. Then I read your post and when I read the ages of the girls I totally had the same idea as you…put the older girl in the second dress and the younger ones in the ivory dress. I think that would be so lovely and allow for the older girl to stand out a little…
I say this because I have a similar problem with ring bearers. We have 3 as well! One is going to be 12 in Dec, the other is 8 and the 3rd is 4. The oldest is a little old to be a ring bearer (but VERY small, still in size 7 clothing so he looks really young) and in order to make him feel special we are allowing him to do a reading during the ceremony.