(Closed) Please help me decide!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Which colour scheme should I pick?
    yellow bridesmaid dresses with fuschia accents : (11 votes)
    58 %
    Stick with the original idea of turquoise and white : (6 votes)
    32 %
    Other, please explain below :) : (2 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
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    1940 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    That’s tough.  I would definitely recommend having all the girls try on the dresses to see how they look before you start worrying too much about it.  As someone who is very fair skinned (and brown hair too), I know that most shades of yellow look pretty terrible on me, so I don’t really wear yellow… ever.  I do think it’s good to try to include the BMs in the decision about the dress they will be wearing, but you may never be able to please all 5 people.  

    Post # 5
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    2703 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @summerlove22 i had the EXACT same problem! and i say go with the yellow dresses! if that’s what you really want! i did and have not regretted it, the one BM that was really against it said “only for you, would i buy/wear this dress”

    🙂

    Post # 6
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    4466 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    My sister is going to have the same problem.  Her colors will be orange and yellow and I know both of those colors will look horrendous on me.  But I will be keeping my mouth shut because it’s her wedding, her colors, etc. etc.

    Go with what you like!

    Post # 8
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    28 posts
    Newbee

    Pick whatever YOU love…it’s your wedding!!

    Post # 9
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    5494 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’m a BM in my friend’s wedding and wearing a dress color i absolutely hate and which totally washes me out, (i’m also really fair).  But you know what?  It’s her wedding and her vision and I want to make her happy.  I’ll deal with an unflattering color for one day….HER day.

    Go with the dress color which makes you happy.  You’r BM is one of your closest friends, (I presume), so she should honestly suck it up and keep quiet.

    Post # 10
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    36 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I had that problem with my wedding, If she is a true friend she will understand that its your wedding and that is what you want. You dont want to regret something like that. ITS YOUR WEDDING. Trust me its the one time it should be about you.

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