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Please help me decide which dress to choose

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    gamaleas      

    Hi there!  I've posted pics of my top two faves for my formal wedding.  The sample for #1 was my size so it's more obvious what the "final" dress would look like.  The sample for #2 was very big for me, so though the dress was clipped, it still didn't look right.

     Assuming #2 was my size, and price being equal, which dress would you choose?  Please help me decide.  I love the fit of #1, but #2 is a bit more "dramatic" and feminine.

     What's your vote?  Thank you!

    http://molliesworld.wordpress.com/2008/08/07/which-dress/

     
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    blushingaudrey    November 8, 2008   Washington, DC

    Number 2!  I think it will fit beautifully in the correct size, and will then look much prettier than #1.  They are both pretty, but I think number 2 wins hands down.  Thats my vote!

     
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    ErinMarieMack    06.27.09   Denver, CO

    I see why you had a hard time choosing. I can see why #2 has 1 vote, but I have to say #1. I think the ivory color flatters your skin tone more and the shape of #1 (albeit it's hard to really tell since it is already the right size) is more flattering.

     
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    AlliD    May 2009   Alabama

    I vote for number 2!  It looks a lot like the dress I have order from Sophia Tolli.. http://www.sophiatolli.com/CollectionProductDetail.aspx?cname=SophiaTolli&did=0&pid=501700&year=2007&season=Fall& though I am having the neckline altered to a sweetheart neckline.. a lot like your choices!

    I love the fit-and-flare look better than the style of number 1.. I found it to look much pretty while moving/walking.  The fluffy skirt keeps the bottom dress away from your legs better one without as much fluff.. which means you will stay picture perfect all the time!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I agree about number 1.  I like the shape of the cups better and I tend towards simpler slightly less poufy things.  They're both good, I just like #1 a lot!

     
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    definitely number 1

     
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    GorgesViola    10/26/08   Ithaca, NY

    I am so in love with everything about #1! I think the color is amazing on you, if it's an accurate representation of both your skin color and the dress. The lace is really gorgeous.

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    SugaryRocks    September 20, 2008  

    #1 all the way!!! you look amazing it this one. the color, the shape, everything. plus the lace looks so elegant and well made.

    #2 does not look as good. the white too white or something and the shape is not so great.

     
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    missm    09-27-08   San Francisco

    #2 - love the flare!

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    melodicsighs1    May 22, 2010   San Diego

    is there any way that you can get #2 in ivory? i agree that the color of #1 looks better, but otherwise i'd vote for #2.

    also, i really love both dresses. could you tell me the designers (especially of #2)? 

     
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    pinklau325    11/1/2008   Hoboken, NJ

    #1 just like the way it falls better and the color!

     
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    bluegreenjean    June 2009  

    #1!  The shape is much more flattering and elegant.  #2 looks a bit too poofy -- and the shape may look more dated in a few years.  Mermaids go in and out, so I'd go with the less drastic of the two .... Remember the 80s?

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    MsB    December 2008  

    They're both beautiful.

    I really like the color of #1,

    I don't think the color of #2 flatters you as well.

    If #2 was in your size I think it would be more flattering.

    My vote is for dress #2 in color #1 :)

     
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    FutureTacco    7/10/2009   Connecticut

    #1 I think I perfer the slight mermaid instead of the poofed one. It looks very slinky and classic. The other style to me seems too much of a fad.

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    jcabc    9-20-08   NYC

    I vote #1!  Its classicly beautiful with a little twist because of the shape. #2 looks a little cheaply made next #1, to me at least!

     
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    shibaby       Syracuse, NY

    #1 hands down

     
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    Janna19    June 7, 2008   New York

    I like #2 :)

     but they both look great!

     
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    BaghdadBride    May 25, 2008   Virginia

    number 1 is classic and looks like it's higher quality 

     
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    Thanks for the help!  melodicsighs1, Number 1 is a Legends by Romona Keveza dress from her 2008 (I think fall) collection.  Number 2 is by Manuel Mota of Pronovias and is called Cantaro.  Cantaro has sleeves and a ribbon, but we manipulated it so that the sleeves were tucked under and the ribbon was tied behind.

     

     
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    Hottiebun    September 18, 2011   West New York

    #2       OMGA... it's AMAZING... and when they fit it to you! even more dreamy will you look!!!

     
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    blushingaudrey    November 8, 2008   Washington, DC

    Wow, I pulled up the Cantaro on the Pronovias website and I'm even more sure I like it better now!  I didn't realize that you had folded down the neckline--I think once it is altered properly to a true sweetheart (though I have to admit I love the sleeves), it will lay much better.  It will also look more proportionate when it is the right length--I'd suggest a custom hollow-to-hem.

    I do agree that ivory is a better color for you, but I just don't like the neckline on the first dress--it is too deep in the center, and the top peaks too far to the sides, it just looks a little off to me.  I'm fairly certain you'd be able to order the Cantaro in ivory.  Good luck deciding though!  I know how tough it is when you  are torn. :)

     
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    beelight13    7/19/09   Seattle

    #1 is HOT!

     
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    beelight13    7/19/09   Seattle

    #1 is HOT!

     
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    Blackbird    September 6, 2008   New York, NY

    #2, but you should get it in ivory. 

     
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    irishgirl    May 2, 2009   Minneapolis

    My vote is for #1. I like the steamlined look and I love the ivory color on you!

     
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    sayithot    July 10, 1993  

    #1 - i don't like how you can see through #2, especially where the tulle is sewn on at the bottom of the dress.

     
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    dreambml    4/12/08   Boston

    absolutely # 1.  It is gorgeous.  You look tiny, so #2 might be too much on the bottom for you, but its hard to tell because its clearly way too big for you.

     
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    mlindsey    3/15/08   Los Angeles

    I like #1. The color and the lace is beautiful, simple and elegant.  If you're going for something a little more over the top, then #2 is the dress to get. I think #1 is more understated and timeless.

     
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    Thank you all so much for your comments!  I agree Number 1 is more flattering, but since our reception is black tie optional, I fear it is too plain?  Am I just paranoid? 

    I think Number 2 is a beautiful dress, but I just fear taking the chance that it will not turn out right once it's my size.  I know Number 1 should be fine since the sample is my size.

    Another alternative is this dress, for which I cannot take a picture of me in it due to the salon's policy, but which I found online.  (I would order a new one since the lovely bride in this picture has such small hips - only 32 inches!).

    http://www.preownedweddingdresses.com/dresses/2427/Jin-Wang--Size-2.html

     

     
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    karissa17    10/11/08  

    i looove #1!

     

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