(Closed) Please help me set an argument with my DH!

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: would you take a birthday present?
    yes : (110 votes)
    92 %
    no : (9 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    1514 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @bebero:  I would take a gift of some kind, and I’d most likely also bring a bottle or two of wine.

    Post # 5
    6360 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Wine and a small gift.

    Post # 6
    764 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I would take a card. Not really a gift. 

    Post # 7
    9217 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    I’d bring beer or wine, not a “real” gift – but that still counts as a gift in my book

    Post # 8
    358 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I wouldn’t bring a present, but I would bring some wine or liquor.

    Post # 9
    668 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Even if it weren’t a “birthday party” I think it’s nice to bring a hostess gift. Wine, potted plant, or flowers would all be appropriate. I don’t think adults really expect “presents” at an adult birthday party.

    Post # 10
    1158 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I would bring a gift.

    Post # 11
    5892 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I agree, something like wine or dessert or chocolates

    Post # 12
    11343 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    If I were invited to a birthday party for someone, I would take a birthday gift.

    Post # 13
    5405 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I think it depends on the situation and how close of a friend this person is. In general, I don’t think adults really do birthday presents (though my best friends and I still do something smaller). A small host gift maybe, but not a “gift.”

    Post # 14
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    probably a GC to somewhere like amazon or a box store, nothing elaborate.  I get where he’s coming from but he’s not in HS anymore

    Post # 15
    914 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’m confused… Why wouldn’t you bring a gift?

    Post # 16
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I would bring something small like a bottle of wine, a card, some chocolate, etc… 

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