- Almost Mrs. Marshall
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
I orginally wanted my mother to walk me down the aisle, but she didnt want to. I asked her several times but she explained to me that she didnt feel comfortable because of her weight, and she felt that everyone would be staring at her. I told her that everyone would be looking at me (lol) and that no one would be thinking that. However, she still wasnt comfortable so my brother really wanted to walk me down which was fine with me so I came up with this idea to have my brother walk me down and my future FIL so it would be like someone from both sides of the family would be giving me away.My FFIL was so excited and honored and thats all he talked about whenever we spoke to him, he told everyone because he was soooo happy.
Fast foward to July my mom had joined weight watchers and had been losing weight and now she wants to walk me down!!!! I love my mom so I had my Fiance call his dad and explain to him the situation. He was totally crushed! He said he still wanted to walk me down but its my day and he wants me to be happy. I feel soooo bad beause after my mom said no several times I had it set in my mind that he and my brother would walk me down. I love my mom but I dont think its fair. I’ve been trying to think of a soluton to satisfy everyone but nothing has come to mind. I need opinions what do you think?