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Please Help with non-cheesy Songs...First dance and father/daughter

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    Chartreuse    March 6, 2010   Belize

    I really don't want to dance a cheesy dance with anyone in public (fiance or dad)...lol I'm sort of embarrassed about being in front of crowds. And I do NOT want to get emotional cuz I have the worst ugly cry-face.

    What do you think about "Kiss Me" by Sixpence None the Richer or "Love Story" by Taylor Swift for first dance?  Or do you have any suggestions for other songs that aren't really slow.

    And what's a good song for father/daughter, since first dance is not going to be slow and cheesy.  So far the only one I sort of like is "I Hope You Dance", but that's still a little on the emotion-provoking side.  Anyone have upbeat suggestions?  Maybe a Spanish song? an 80's song? I'm drawing a blank on this one...

    (It's a beach wedding if that makes any difference)

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    we are going with swingy standards, possibly instrumental so there are no creepy words!

     
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    Candy_Nee    May 1, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    We're doing "You are the Best Thing" by Ray LaMontagne.  It's got an up beat tempo.

    Do you have brown eyes?  Brown Eyed Girl by Van Morrison (or Jimmy Buffett since it's at the beach) could be a good F/D dance song.  Just ignore the line about being "behind the stadium with you"!

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    that line is kind of creepy.... esp for a father daughter dance. I go back and forth on nixing the parent dances alltogether but his mom would take it personally. are there any songs that make you think of your dad?

    my FI and I picked van morrison "crazy Love" for the first dance because all the time he tells me that I'm crazy and that is why he loves me. even though it could be interpreted kind of creepy.

     
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    Jacqi    February 28, 2009  

    Kiss me and Love Story seem like they might be harder to dance to, but I've never tried it, so maybe you should do some practice runs before you pick a song.

    What about God Only Knows by the Beach Boys? This could be the father/daughter or your first dance.

     
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    lara bee    9/4/09   Minneapolis

    Me and my dad danced to Tupelo Honey by Van Morrison.

    Also, there are some great Beatles songs, or Sweet Pea by Amos Lee.

     
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    Chartreuse    March 6, 2010   Belize

    hahaah that's a good idea about the instrumentals, no creepy words lol. 

    Or maybe an old song like 50's or 60's???

     
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    Ms Sassy    January 4, 2012   Outside of Boston, MA

    Daughter by Loudon Wainwright

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lVam-fshUgw

    LOVE this song.

     
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    Ms Sassy    January 4, 2012   Outside of Boston, MA

    Daughter by Loudon Wainwright

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lVam-fshUgw

    LOVE this song.

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    forever young by rod stewart!

     
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    melv0802    September 18, 2010   new jersey/philadelphia

    for your first dance, u could dance to 'i'm yours' by jason mraz..we might dance to that=)

     
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    christalynn11    October 22, 2010   Arlington, WA

    I'm not particularly close with my Dad from my point of view, but for whatever reason he is very attached to me.  Whenever there is something emotional, he cries.  The idea of having my Dad, who i'm kind of blaze about in general, bawling at my wedding and going on and on about how wonderful I am makes me... Eh, lets just say I'm not into it.

    My only great memories of my Dad are from when I was really little (think up to about age 8).  He introduced me to my love for music, and particularly classic rock.  A few years ago when my brother married his wife, my Dad and I danced to Bob Seger's "Old Time Rock N Roll" during their reception - it was this completely spontaneous moment and every single person stopped and watched us just absolutely rock the dance floor. I knew then that is what we would be doing on my wedding day too.  :) 

     
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    Ex Libris    October 10, 2010   Brooklyn, NY

    I'm actually fairly close with my dad, but he is a BAWLER!  I am very sensitive, was always a crier as a kid, and since high school, have been completely averse to public displays of emotion.  I am soooo uncomfortable with the thought of my dad sobbing all over the place to some sappy F/D dance song (he will be all squishy anyway but I don't want to encourage it).  I was thinking of using "59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin Groovy)" by Simon and Garfunkel.  It's also really short. :)

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    For Father/Daughter songs I think offbeatbride is the best place to go for the non-cheese.

    http://offbeatbride.com/2007/06/non-sappy-fatherdaughter-dance-songs

    13 pages of suggestions! I think it's a winner and if we were doing a father/daughter dance that's totally where I'd look.

     
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    babymilka74    August 2010  

    I'm considering "I'm Yours" too! But I was afraid the lyrics might be too weird. IDK.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    My dad and I are dancing to "Daughters" by Loudon Wainwright and I looove it...not creepy @ all :)

     

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    "When I See You Smile!"  Sorry, I love that song... I don't think I'll do a father/daughter, but I want a fun song for the first dance- maybe Hall and Oates "You Make My Dreams Come True."  I just want to have fun.

     
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    Chartreuse    March 6, 2010   Belize

    Well, we ended up using "isn't she lovely"....it was nice and upbeatTongue out

     
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    FutureMrsWalker    June 13, 2010   Connecticut

    My dad and I are doing "Lullabye" by Billy Joel. Because my dad really, really hates to dance, I needed something slow.

    This song is great because it's sweet and classic without being overly mush.

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    My DJ just sent me this list (actually a list for Mother/Son but probably could be used for Father Daughter).

    You've Got a Friend James Taylor
    I'm Moving On Rascal Flatts
    Simple Man Shinedown
    Simple Man Lynard Skynard
    A Song For Mama Boys II Men
    A song for my son on his wedding day Mikki Viereck
    All those years ago George Harrison
    Always On My Mind Willie Nelson
    Baby Mine Bette Midler - Beaches Soundtrack
    Beautiful Boy John Lennon
    Beautiful In My Eyes Joshua Kadison
    Child Of Mine Carole King
    Dog and Butterfly Heart
    Forever Young Rod Stewart
    God Only Knows Beach Boys
    Godspeed Dixie Chicks
    Good Mother Jann Arden
    Goodbye's the saddest word Celine Dion
    Hand That Rocks the Cradle steve wariner
    I Hope You Dance Leann Womack
    I Will Be there For You Jessica Andrews
    I'll Always Love my Mama Intruders
    I'll Be Reba McIntyre
    I'll Love You Forever from Forever and Always Priscilla Herdman
    I'll Remember Madonna
    I'm Your Angel R. Kelly and Celine Dion
    Ice Cream Sarah McLachlan
    If I Could Barbra Streisand
    If I could Regina Belle
    If There Hadn't Been You Billy Dean
    In My Mother's Eyes Willie Nelson
    IOU Lee Greenwood
    L-O-V-E Nat King Cole
    Love of My Life Carly Simon
    Mama Spice Girls
    Mom IOU Jimmy dean
    Mother Pink Floyd
    Moving On Rascal Flatts
    Music of My Heart N Sync &Gloria Estephan
    My Son Mikki Viereck
    Oh how the years go by Vanessa Williams
    One True Friend Bette Midler
    open arms journey
    Perfect Fan Back Street boys
    Perhaps Love John Denver &Placido Domingo
    Rainbow Connection Kermit the Frog - Muppet Movie Soundtrack
    Roots Anne Murray
    She's Every Woman Garth Brooks as Chris Gaines
    Simple Man Lynard Skynard
    So Many Stars Natalie Cole
    Soul of my Soul Michael Bolton
    Summer Wind Frank Sinatra
    sunrise sunset fiddler on the roof
    Sweet Child O' Mine Sheryl Crow
    Take It Off The Donnas
    Thank You Boyz II Men
    Thanks again Ricky Scaggs
    The Baby Blake Shelton
    The Color of Love Boyz to Men
    The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face Roberta Flack
    The Greatest Kenny Rogers
    The Man You're Become Molly Pasutti
    The One Who Knows Dar Williams
    The Prayer Celine Dion &Andrea Bocelli
    Then They Do Trace Adkins
    There You'll Be Faith Hill
    Three Times A Lady Commodores
    Through the Years Kenny Rogers
    Time Backstreet Boys
    Two Steps Behind Def Leppard
    Up Where We Belong Joe Cocker
    What a Wonderful World Louis Armstrong
    When You Say Nothing at All Keith Whitley and Alison Krause
    Whole On To Your World (Don't You Forget It) Glen Lewis
    With Arms Wide Open Creed
    With Or Without You U2
    Woman John Lennon
    You Are My Friend Patti LaBelle
    You Are The Wind Beneath My Wings Bette Middler
    You Light Up My Life Debbie Boone
    You Mean Everything (To Me) Tom Scott
    You needed me Boyzone
    You Raise Me Up Josh Groban

     

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